Your teachers in school had it. Your bosses have it. Your pastor has it. God has it. Authority gives the listener the ease to trust the words being said and to do what is being said. No authority. No trust. Not to say you cannot trust even without authority, but you're supposed to figure out if the words are worthy of being trusted then.
That's the authority women do NOT have over men. Listen to us all you want, but then think for yourself to decide if you believe it. Authority means that trust was earned and the people listening ought to do what is being told.
And, if you have a pastor who was an electrical engineer two years ago, (don't laugh. I had him as a pastor), then there is no authority in him either. The trust is earned by background too. Authority is earned.
Check out the Bible stories for why women don't earn it -- Eve, Lot's wife, Sarah, Delilah -- we have a gender-specific flaw. (Not saying women only have this, nor that we all do this all the time, but we do have the lineage to prove the flaw.) We have the skill sets to talk a man into anything without him even realizing he's been snookered. NOT a good trait for authority figures.