Terribly sorry for the pain you went through with those men, but I saw the pic you posted in the women preacher thread and I take exception with your 4 designation for your face. I know it's not important but I think you need to bump that up a few numbers. The hand holding the ciggy might be a 4 though!
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Pretty is as pretty does. I raised my daughter on that saying. She was a very cute little girl but she was a mean selfish little brat sometimes too! I tried to teach her that looks are only skin deep. Its the heart that matters.
Being born with good looks is not a bad thing until you make it your focus. I have a feeling it is not your looks that gets you in trouble but it is your inability to say no or perhaps it is a self worth issue. You may as well learn right now while you are so young that people will treat you how you teach them to treat you.
Lay low and commit yourself to really reading Gods word.Get to know your KING who wants you to live a peaceful and joyous life!
[h=1]Romans 12:2[/h] [SUP]2 [/SUP]Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Ask The Lord what is in your heart that needs changing like David did. Psalms 139:23
I hope this helps.
Blessings to you
Being born with good looks is not a bad thing until you make it your focus. I have a feeling it is not your looks that gets you in trouble but it is your inability to say no or perhaps it is a self worth issue. You may as well learn right now while you are so young that people will treat you how you teach them to treat you.
Lay low and commit yourself to really reading Gods word.Get to know your KING who wants you to live a peaceful and joyous life!
[h=1]Romans 12:2[/h] [SUP]2 [/SUP]Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Ask The Lord what is in your heart that needs changing like David did. Psalms 139:23
I hope this helps.
Blessings to you
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I think this thread came out totally not the way i want people to see me.no im not deceiving im actually frustrated a bit about it because i feel vain and all that bad stuff at times still so i fight it and i dont wanna think let me lure men in with my looks or i look better than you.. So yea it may not actually be a big problem but isnt this what this site is for ? Theres worst threads out there.. But i guess people who really dont know god criticise and think theyre connected to god LOL.. And i actually would love to help children in need ive been thinking about going to my local hospital and volunteering for some time.. I also was thinking that if i geta job soon i might go to greece or other countries that are having refugee problems to help the refugees and the children .. So yea im not just some girl complaining about my looks to get men im actually doing it for myself because i was very egotistical before.. Good day sister
lol well dont look at a reponsabiility as a burden. Your not alone on that topic but you shouldnt be so negative. Many people here also just read and hear what they wanna hear. I think your thread is just silly because of your mindset to it. Be glad that your pretty. and men will lure if your pretty or not, people will pick and be jealous if your pretty or not, if your skinny or chubby. Stop worrying about others but start working on yourself. The work repentance used in the New Testament literally means ''to change the way you think''
godsslife....wow...talk about focus upon SELF....I am not condemning you...JESUS tells us that you can tell a tree by it's fruits. This site is not for anything made of vanity at all. JESUS gets all the glory and praise here..or should. We see none of that in your posts. We can only read what your mind has produced. We see nothing at all about JESUS here. We see a teenage picture of a young female who is voicing her thoughts and opinions of her SELF...and by saying "THere's worse threads out there" is no justification for this. You even admit that you were very egotistical....but it's still lingering. Once the Holy Spirit had gotten into your MIND....your posts will change entirely....and until then...you have our prayers that GOD will offer every opportunity for you to refocus upon His Son JESUS CHRIST...in whom is no vanity.
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God gave everyone beauty because we are all made in His image. 
What you're saying is that you have been conditioned to believe your outward man (the flesh) is what makes you beautiful. In fact, that type of beauty is deceptive because it is of the flesh and not the spirit.
We are instructed not to acknowledge anyone according to the flesh anymore, not even Jesus Himself. But we are to recognize one another in the Spirit. [2 Corinthians 5:16]
Look at Caitlyn Jenner. She was on the cover of a magazine as a woman who is beautiful according to the world. Anyone can make themselves look like something the world wants. But that's not beauty. Don't believe that lie.
If someone's heart is focused on themselves and what they can receive from others, that is not beautiful. That is pride and it's ugly and destructive. Jealousy is related to it as well because the world is full of people competing for attention with whatever they can do to get into the spotlight. The devil even tried to do that. He tried to compete with God's glory.
Don't view yourself through the eyes of the world. The Lord paid a price for us all to be set free of that and has allowed us to live freely in His light and perfect love. Your outward man has been crucified with Christ; it's now Christ Jesus living in you as His vessel of honor. \/
"Be of good cheer... I have overcome the world." Jesus says. You have been lied to. Your value is not based on the outward. Believe the Lord when He tells you that you are a new creation, a spiritual child of God.
What you're saying is that you have been conditioned to believe your outward man (the flesh) is what makes you beautiful. In fact, that type of beauty is deceptive because it is of the flesh and not the spirit. We are instructed not to acknowledge anyone according to the flesh anymore, not even Jesus Himself. But we are to recognize one another in the Spirit. [2 Corinthians 5:16]
Look at Caitlyn Jenner. She was on the cover of a magazine as a woman who is beautiful according to the world. Anyone can make themselves look like something the world wants. But that's not beauty. Don't believe that lie.
If someone's heart is focused on themselves and what they can receive from others, that is not beautiful. That is pride and it's ugly and destructive. Jealousy is related to it as well because the world is full of people competing for attention with whatever they can do to get into the spotlight. The devil even tried to do that. He tried to compete with God's glory.
Don't view yourself through the eyes of the world. The Lord paid a price for us all to be set free of that and has allowed us to live freely in His light and perfect love. Your outward man has been crucified with Christ; it's now Christ Jesus living in you as His vessel of honor. \
/"Be of good cheer... I have overcome the world." Jesus says.
You have been lied to. Your value is not based on the outward. Believe the Lord when He tells you that you are a new creation, a spiritual child of God.
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