Discomfort around the other sex
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2nd new name since your first banning, and your last name was banned too, correct?
I won't name the first name, but I'm pretty sure... We've heard your song before, even though the "faces" were different.
As Lynx would say, "I have a song for that:" C & C Music Factory, "Things That Make You Go Hmmm."
I'm curious to see who else has caught on. Unless you completely change your style of communication, you will almost unquestionably be recognized, seeing as your posting style and wording is unmistakable.
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Oh, hi there! We were just starting to miss you.
You know brother, you should really change your stance. Try and not use the same arguments. Wasn't it a few weeks ago when "someone" said the same sentences?
By the way, I noticed that the Bible verses and the textual prayers are missing from your posts. What's up with that?
Edited to add: Nope, I was wrong. #60 has it all!
You know brother, you should really change your stance. Try and not use the same arguments. Wasn't it a few weeks ago when "someone" said the same sentences?
By the way, I noticed that the Bible verses and the textual prayers are missing from your posts. What's up with that?
Edited to add: Nope, I was wrong. #60 has it all!
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So first you say you don't like people, Grumpycrumpet doesn't love them (if you don't love people you don't love God, read John, it's impossible), he who hates his brother is in darkness, you make me feel very uncomfortable, moreso since there was a satanist here very recently and you talk about setups. Right. The disciples were afraid of Paul, not because they were such unfriendly people, but because he used to kill them. Now I'm not afraid of witches anyway and I give you the benefit of the doubt, but it's not smart to talk like that if you want to be accepted by christians. I had demons of witchcraft kicked out of me. If there's hate the door is open, even if you are a christian. I'd get healed up if I were you or maybe you didn't mean it but then I'd change the way you talk and not make jokes that you're an evil mastermind. If you're saved you are a new creation, not some Myer Biggs or whatever character type.
You and the troll are just talking to yourselves here. Amy and I are on to other threads, but I did want to make one point very clear to you and to everyone else on this site:
No, I don't love you or anyone else. Whatever you think of me or my status as a Christian is yours to think. I'm not going to defend myself against accusations. If I or Amy make you or anyone else uncomfortable then I would suggest avoiding the threads we participate in. Simple, right?
Bless your heart.
No, I don't love you or anyone else. Whatever you think of me or my status as a Christian is yours to think. I'm not going to defend myself against accusations. If I or Amy make you or anyone else uncomfortable then I would suggest avoiding the threads we participate in. Simple, right?
Bless your heart.
I know that for some people, Aimee might seem like a "new" member here because they're not familiar with her posts and testimony, but she's been here a long time.
Although I haven't met Aimee in person (some members on this site have), I wanted to second Grace's statements about Aimee's stance as a Christian. For those of us who have known her for some time on the site, there are no doubts about her faith. She just has a different perspective, and unfortunately, has faced a lot of opposition we never have because we haven't experienced the background she came from.
I have a great book called "Dreams, Prophecy, and Evangelism" by an author named Doug Addison who was raised in the New Age lifestyle and delivered as a Christian. He talks about one instance in particular in which a woman was "praying" for him but he knew something else was going on--she was actually a witch and was trying to put a curse on him. Mr. Addison had a keen spiritual sensitivity from childhood, and when he became saved, he was able to discern the source from which people were working. He explains things in a way that's both fascinating but won't creep out the average reader--check it out if you can.
As for Yureason--when you were under your first name, I complimented the fact that you would type out long, and what seemed like at the time, dedicated prayers for other people.
The thing is, as I read them more closely (under all the names you've chosen for yourself), they seem a lot more like spiritual manipulation. There seems to be a distinct pattern to your posts:
1. You talk about how deeply lonely you are, and for that, I sympathize with you. I truly do.
2. But then... It always turns into how people do you wrong. Somehow they've committed some kind of sin against you, either by not talking to you as much as you want, or by talking to other people and supposedly leaving you out, and you always see other people's conversations as purposely ignoring you.
3. Your final reaction is to always, always, accuse people of "not being Christians". Your posts are full of laments about the people on this site claiming to be Christians but not actually being Christians.
But a further examination of your lengthy, hyper-spiritual-sounding rants (under all 3 of the names I've noticed you as so far--maybe I've missed a few) all have the same message: "You are not acting the way I want you to, and you are not treating me the way I wanted to be treated. Therefore... I am going to question your faith, and say that you aren't a Christian at all, and I'm going to type out a long prayer asking God to behave in a way that better suits the way I want to be treated."
I'm pointing this out because it's all in reference to your posts (nothing hidden, nothing private), and as I said before, you have a very distinct style of communication. Unless you change that (and your message behind it) drastically, people will always recognize you.
I do feel sorry for your pain, whoever you are. But telling people they aren't Christians when you don't agree with them or feel they don't pay enough attention to you just isn't the way to go about it.
GrumpyCrumpet, I sincerely apologize for derailing your thread a bit, but I felt the need to say something. (Should I just say, "Bless my own heart" before you do?
Just kidding! )
Although I haven't met Aimee in person (some members on this site have), I wanted to second Grace's statements about Aimee's stance as a Christian. For those of us who have known her for some time on the site, there are no doubts about her faith. She just has a different perspective, and unfortunately, has faced a lot of opposition we never have because we haven't experienced the background she came from.
I have a great book called "Dreams, Prophecy, and Evangelism" by an author named Doug Addison who was raised in the New Age lifestyle and delivered as a Christian. He talks about one instance in particular in which a woman was "praying" for him but he knew something else was going on--she was actually a witch and was trying to put a curse on him. Mr. Addison had a keen spiritual sensitivity from childhood, and when he became saved, he was able to discern the source from which people were working. He explains things in a way that's both fascinating but won't creep out the average reader--check it out if you can.
As for Yureason--when you were under your first name, I complimented the fact that you would type out long, and what seemed like at the time, dedicated prayers for other people.
The thing is, as I read them more closely (under all the names you've chosen for yourself), they seem a lot more like spiritual manipulation. There seems to be a distinct pattern to your posts:
1. You talk about how deeply lonely you are, and for that, I sympathize with you. I truly do.
2. But then... It always turns into how people do you wrong. Somehow they've committed some kind of sin against you, either by not talking to you as much as you want, or by talking to other people and supposedly leaving you out, and you always see other people's conversations as purposely ignoring you.
3. Your final reaction is to always, always, accuse people of "not being Christians". Your posts are full of laments about the people on this site claiming to be Christians but not actually being Christians.
But a further examination of your lengthy, hyper-spiritual-sounding rants (under all 3 of the names I've noticed you as so far--maybe I've missed a few) all have the same message: "You are not acting the way I want you to, and you are not treating me the way I wanted to be treated. Therefore... I am going to question your faith, and say that you aren't a Christian at all, and I'm going to type out a long prayer asking God to behave in a way that better suits the way I want to be treated."
I'm pointing this out because it's all in reference to your posts (nothing hidden, nothing private), and as I said before, you have a very distinct style of communication. Unless you change that (and your message behind it) drastically, people will always recognize you.
I do feel sorry for your pain, whoever you are. But telling people they aren't Christians when you don't agree with them or feel they don't pay enough attention to you just isn't the way to go about it.
GrumpyCrumpet, I sincerely apologize for derailing your thread a bit, but I felt the need to say something. (Should I just say, "Bless my own heart" before you do?
Just kidding! )
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I had a very similar experience with a guy who I supervised. I was talking to him about some of the reports he had written and letting him know I needed him to make a few changes. We were having a nice conversation and joking and laughing, but then out of the blue it felt like some kind of alarm went off in me and I became very uncomfortable talking to him. I could tell he knew...He must have seen it in my eyes or something.
I couldn't figure out then why I had a feeling like that, but I did shortly after. He was married and was telling me many lies about his wife. He wanted to date me even though he was married. He got so creepy that I couldn't even be in a room alone with him because of the bad things that he would say of try to do. He acted like he was joking, but I didn't find any of it funny. I was embarrassed to report him to my supervisor. He got mad because I rejected him and even lied and tried to get me fired, but that backfired for him and his employment was terminated.
Anyhow, I know now that God gave me that feeling to warn me as to what type of person he was and to be careful around him.
I couldn't figure out then why I had a feeling like that, but I did shortly after. He was married and was telling me many lies about his wife. He wanted to date me even though he was married. He got so creepy that I couldn't even be in a room alone with him because of the bad things that he would say of try to do. He acted like he was joking, but I didn't find any of it funny. I was embarrassed to report him to my supervisor. He got mad because I rejected him and even lied and tried to get me fired, but that backfired for him and his employment was terminated.
Anyhow, I know now that God gave me that feeling to warn me as to what type of person he was and to be careful around him.
Look, you're jumping to conclusions. I love people. I love my mother, I love people in the Body of Christ, I love people on this site, but AS A WHOLE, I don't like the Body of Christ. I can't speak for Crumpy.
THAT'S BETWEEN HIM AND JESUS. NOT BETWEEN HIM AND YOU.
God is working on my heart. Just like other dude who is only reading and believing what he wants to, you're not paying attention to everything we're saying. Crumpet has been through a lot, I've been through a lot, and God has redeemed us, is redeeming us, and will continue to redeem us. Your fear needs to be handled. Stop walking around so afraid of things and invest yourself in the readings of the bible. You don't need to be taught the bible, you need to read the bible. The Holy Spirit will teach you what you need to know along with whatever your pastor has for you on Sundays. Now, I'm not saying you're not reading the bible, or anything of the sort, but you need to believe that God will teach you by his spirit. Even if you had no church, God will still teach you!
I'm not worried about being accepted by Christians. Whether or not you like me isn't any skin off my nose. Psychology is still valid, btw, even though we're Christians. God made us complex creatures. Biology, psychology, physiology, etc, it all applies.
My healing isn't between me and you, darlin. It's between me and Jesus. It's between me and my friends. I've been saved for MUCH longer than you assume, so next time ASK. Ask more questions and stop assuming you know what someone's relationship with Christ is like. Your fear rules more of you than you realize. Maybe you said what you did because you care. If that's so, great. Thanks. But I think you saw my age, read a few of my words, and assumed a bunch because of that dude who ran with a bunch of judgement. Who, in case you didn't know, is being run on a rail out of town. I've got references here. Big ones. And feel free to pray about me too. That's the biggest reference of all.
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I just meant if you don't want people (who absolutely don't know you) to act that unkind better not make such jokes that you're an evil mastermind. Lol but if you don't care about it, fine, but you first said that that bothered you. I just felt uncomfortable for a moment, mainly because before you some satanist was threatening, but God said: Who cares if there are witches on this site? (not talking about you, but they do drop in on forums, once I spoke to someone who turned out to be a satanist and I'm not afraid, but that's not really the kind of people I want to babble with or christian Freemasons, hmm, rather not)
He said:
Be more concerned about the kind of 'christian' witchcraft that noone notices. I made a thread about it in BDF.
Sorry that I doubted for a moment your sincerity, I've been too concerned about trolls lately.
He said:
Be more concerned about the kind of 'christian' witchcraft that noone notices. I made a thread about it in BDF.
Sorry that I doubted for a moment your sincerity, I've been too concerned about trolls lately.
I've never been worried about what strangers think, and I don't remember saying that it bothered me what people thought. I care what God thinks. People change their mind every 15 minutes. I don't have the energy or the time to care.
Again, I'm not a witch anymore, but there are people who are. I run into them all the time. They're everywhere.
Also, AGAIN, if you had read everything you would have seen me talk about christians and THE CHURCH who practice witchcraft knowingly/not knowingly that the rest of Body turns a blind eye to.
Don't worry about doubting me. I get it all the time.
I apologize if I came on too strong, but I nip things in the bud. Because of the nonsense in the Body of Christ, and all the confusion, I defend myself hard because the enemy attacks hard.Don't worry about trolls. They'll hang themselves, and stay out of the BDF. It's not worth it.
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I've never been worried about what strangers think, and I don't remember saying that it bothered me what people thought. I care what God thinks. People change their mind every 15 minutes. I don't have the energy or the time to care.
Again, I'm not a witch anymore, but there are people who are. I run into them all the time. They're everywhere.
Also, AGAIN, if you had read everything you would have seen me talk about christians and THE CHURCH who practice witchcraft knowingly/not knowingly that the rest of Body turns a blind eye to.
Don't worry about doubting me. I get it all the time. I apologize if I came on too strong, but I nip things in the bud. Because of the nonsense in the Body of Christ, and all the confusion, I defend myself hard because the enemy attacks hard.
Don't worry about trolls. They'll hang themselves, and stay out of the BDF. It's not worth it.
Again, I'm not a witch anymore, but there are people who are. I run into them all the time. They're everywhere.
Also, AGAIN, if you had read everything you would have seen me talk about christians and THE CHURCH who practice witchcraft knowingly/not knowingly that the rest of Body turns a blind eye to.
Don't worry about doubting me. I get it all the time.
I apologize if I came on too strong, but I nip things in the bud. Because of the nonsense in the Body of Christ, and all the confusion, I defend myself hard because the enemy attacks hard.Don't worry about trolls. They'll hang themselves, and stay out of the BDF. It's not worth it.
Ya'know, sometimes, just sometimes, it's good to have a troll around. It can be a learning experience watching "upright", "upstanding", popular site members jump in & make a jack*** outta themselves. For when they judge the trolls on how bad & rotten to the core they are, they themselves don't realize they're showing their true colors. "He that judgest does the same things" comes to mind. And somehow, they seem to believe it's alright to treat a jerk like a jerk 'cuz he is one. The Bible has a problem with that.....
Matthew 5:43-45 (KJV)
[SUP]43 [/SUP]Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. [SUP]44 [/SUP]But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; [SUP]45 [/SUP]That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
[HR][/HR]Luke 6:35 (KJV)
[SUP]35 [/SUP]But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
Matthew 5:43-45 (KJV)
[SUP]43 [/SUP]Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. [SUP]44 [/SUP]But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; [SUP]45 [/SUP]That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
[HR][/HR]Luke 6:35 (KJV)
[SUP]35 [/SUP]But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.