So the current "Christian man" I'm dating, 44 years old, goes to church, writes music onto God, etc is "discouraged" because I want to wait for marriage before sex. He says he does love me. But because I don't want to have sexual relations, he says it's not going to work out and that we should remain friends.
It's a no brainer, right?
I know it is, but I need ya'll to tell me it's a no brainer.
Cause I can't believe the relationships I'm running into with what I thought were men who loved the Lord and I though His Word made it perfectly clear fornication is a sin.
How could he possibly love me if he breaks up because he isn't getting what he wanted? He's full of it, right? No brainer?
It's a no brainer, right?
I know it is, but I need ya'll to tell me it's a no brainer.
Cause I can't believe the relationships I'm running into with what I thought were men who loved the Lord and I though His Word made it perfectly clear fornication is a sin.
How could he possibly love me if he breaks up because he isn't getting what he wanted? He's full of it, right? No brainer?
It would be a no-brainer for me. I don't plan on having sex before marriage and I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm not going to get support in my decision to honor God's rule on the issue.
In my case, I've been upfront with women on this issue. I've made it clear from the beginning that I plan to wait until marriage to be sexually active.
The gal I'm currently dating respects and supports our decision. We both plan on waiting until marriage to be sexually active.
My suggestion is to be clear with men from the get-go. Decent/honest men will not only respect your decision, but agree with it and be striving for the same goal. While it can be hard to find such men, they do exist. Patience may be key.