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Causing a little doubt in Mr I'm only in it for the kids about his assessment of the woman he married might be just what the doctor ordered. Independence and a person who values and takes care of themselves both physically and emotionally probably wont be anything but attractive to him. Tease him a little about her sexuality. We are simpletons that way. Lol
She says he wants no sex. Then that won't work. And refusal for years is a reason you may divorce if you want to, just like adultary. It's the same as if he keeps all the money for himself and doesn't give her food. Food house and sex, if he refused that even a slave could divorce. Let him repent and get help and don't enable him.
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Can divorce. Not the same as must. I honestly don't know if this marriage is over. I have my opinions, but that's all they are. I will forever go with keep trying until God releases you. BUT make sure you're attuned to God's word so you know when he gives the release order, or you get surprised to learn it was an extended rough patch.
You can tell someone something all day long but it won't matter until they are ready. The best thing you can do is get yourself right. Being and getting yourself healthy is at first threatening to a partner who is unwell. But it is the right thing to do for yourself. When I got well and started setting boundaries in regards to the abuse I was receiving, my second wife responded with divorce papers. And she is a person who screamed from the Mtn tops how much she was against divorce. Getting healthy is a risk worth taking regardless of the outcome.
Yes I agree. Get healthy yourself, let God heal you up. Then he may change or not, but somehow you have to set boundaries. Don't know how in this case. Threaten with divorce? Tell him you're not gonna live like that for years? I knew a couple who stayed together for the kids for 18 years, just living like brother and sister. They both didn't want to make it work and because he got nothing he got it on the street turned out later. They should have divorced much earlier.
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You have got to be kidding me Kris... Ok I agree with you on a lot of things and I consider you a friend. Even like you some. But no. No no no.
You don't have the make yourself attractive to change things. Open and honest communication and Christian counseling is your answer
He's not acting this way cause she's not pretty. Or because she's got her hair in a pony tail.
You don't have the make yourself attractive to change things. Open and honest communication and Christian counseling is your answer
He's not acting this way cause she's not pretty. Or because she's got her hair in a pony tail.