I should inform people who do not know, that I am an ordained pastor. I preach and teach in my church. My last sermon touched many people, particularly with regards to the important of repentance in our Christian walk. I am a volunteer at this point. I was a chaplain for a while, till I ended up in another med failure, which I hope and pray, I am at the end of.
A few comments. First regarding the "helpmeet" in the Bible, and what Ezer really means in the OT, including Genesis 2:18. (This is put together from some other posts I have made)
"the word עזר or "ezer" often translated "helpmeet" from the Hebrew in Gen. 2:18 - It appears 21 times in the Old Testament. Two times it is in Genesis for the woman (Gen. 2:18, 20). three times for nations to whom Israel appealed for military aid. (Isa. 30:5, Eze. 12:14, Daniel 11:34),
and SIXTEEN TIMES for God as Israel's helper. (Exodus 18:4, Deut. 33:7, 26, 29, Psalms 20:2, 33:20, 70:5, 89:19 (translated STRENGTH) in NIV; 115:9, 10, 11; 121:1-2; 124:8; 146:5; Hosea 13:9.
So rather than the word being translated Helper, a better translation would be STRONG helper! Ezer is used in a military context, "shield and defense," "better than chariots and horses," "Sentry watch over his people."
Even Eden fits this pattern, because truly the Garden of Eden was a war zone. God commanded the man to keep or guard the garden by using the same military language later used for the cherubim who guarded the garden with a flaming sword. The reason, of course, is that a powerful enemy was already planning an attack.
God created his daughters to be ezer-warriors with our brothers. God deploys the ezer to break the man's aloneness by soldiering with him wholeheartedly and at full strength for God's gracious kingdom. As ezer-warriors, we must be strong, resourceful, alert to the cries of the needy and oppressed. Other verses that support the ezer-warrior image, include Ruth and the Proverbs 31 woman, and all believers are told to "put on the armour of God" in Eph. 6:10-17, not just the men.
Thinking of ezer as a warrior is entirely consistent with how Scripture views us. If you do not understand this concept, that is ok, but don't go telling women they are to give up their calling to fight against the enemy and for God and his justice, or you will be the one sinning against God.