LOL!!!!
Good, as I've not told you otherwise. But you're young and come to knee jerk conclusions because you know what a few verses say but not what they mean in any case.
Trust Him, that is God, and not you, nor your friends choice.
You've been given enough Scripture to show salvation isn't via man's choice, yet, you still argue to make salvation all about man choosing in spite of that and cannot refute God's revelation.
God saves. Man's choice doesn't. Take some time and read the passages given you. Read commentary on them. Type less, be quiet a lot more often, and study. It is apparent you do little study, and type way too much, or you'd be more solid in your understanding otherwise.
You're so highly influenced by Socinian Pelagianism, you will not see it. The tradition of men has blinded you, and yet you cannot refute one Scripture offered. Slow down. Type less, study more. Perhaps then you'll see you come to false conclusions and arrive at false assertions like the one where you believe I've told you not to preach the Word.