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When we were first married my husband told me I folded his underwear wrong.....really?!?
We lived in an apartment and I had to haul the laundry to the car to the laundry mat and back while 7 months pregnant.
I was kind of mad and didn't do his laundry for a month..
Eventually he asked me if I planned on doing laundry soon.
I told him I did, but didn't do his because I didn't want to fold it wrong.
He apologized and he has been real good about saying thanks. Sometimes he even does his own laundry.., but we have a washer and dryer in the house so it's easier too.
Not suggesting you be passive aggressive but yeah sometimes we all have things we have to work out in our marriages. We just have to communicate what we are thinking and feeling..,guys are NOT mIndreaders
We lived in an apartment and I had to haul the laundry to the car to the laundry mat and back while 7 months pregnant.
I was kind of mad and didn't do his laundry for a month..
Eventually he asked me if I planned on doing laundry soon.
I told him I did, but didn't do his because I didn't want to fold it wrong.
He apologized and he has been real good about saying thanks. Sometimes he even does his own laundry.., but we have a washer and dryer in the house so it's easier too.
Not suggesting you be passive aggressive but yeah sometimes we all have things we have to work out in our marriages. We just have to communicate what we are thinking and feeling..,guys are NOT mIndreaders
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I guess it makes a difference when we feel obligated to do something and chose to do it out or love.
Sometimes I think I am a spoiled princess. I only do things that I feel like doing. Cuz of love I do quite alot, but some days I do nothing at all.
By the way you are a princess to because you are a daughter of the King of kings.
Anyway, the whole Sabbath thing of doing nothing at all because God loves us so much, He didn't ask us to do more work for Him. He told us to test and enjoy the blessings He has already give us.he tells us we don't need to earn His love because He already loves us so much. So if we do nothing at all....he still loves us.
I wish we could love others and ourselves like God does.
Then we won't feel obligated to do things but work because it's a way of showing our love for them.
Does that make any sense?
Sometimes I think I am a spoiled princess. I only do things that I feel like doing. Cuz of love I do quite alot, but some days I do nothing at all.
By the way you are a princess to because you are a daughter of the King of kings.
Anyway, the whole Sabbath thing of doing nothing at all because God loves us so much, He didn't ask us to do more work for Him. He told us to test and enjoy the blessings He has already give us.he tells us we don't need to earn His love because He already loves us so much. So if we do nothing at all....he still loves us.
I wish we could love others and ourselves like God does.
Then we won't feel obligated to do things but work because it's a way of showing our love for them.
Does that make any sense?
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I have to admit though I am a brat sometimes and have to stop myself from intentionally doing things to make people mad if I am mad at them.
It's not very loving but it's a bad habit I picked up from having brothers and "getting back" at them.
God is teaching me to be more loving....but I still play a prank or two to get a laugh now instead of because I am mad.
I try and pray and forgive before acting out of anger. Sometimes I have to confront and that is never pleasant,
It's not very loving but it's a bad habit I picked up from having brothers and "getting back" at them.
God is teaching me to be more loving....but I still play a prank or two to get a laugh now instead of because I am mad.
I try and pray and forgive before acting out of anger. Sometimes I have to confront and that is never pleasant,
I didn’t see anyone say anything about needing “me time”. Well, I mentioned finding five minutes to have a shower, but bathing is just as much a service to those around us as it is a small break for ourselves 
His burdens are your burdens, your burdens are his burdens. The Husband and Wife are no longer twain but ONE FLESH, it seems to me, in your marriage their His and Yours. This is not Godly.
There is nothing more important.
He needs another Job. Yes i see. So he loves his job. Continue to be a Godly wife to him, and pray that God intervenes.
The Daily Bread is good.
He that finds his life will lose it, but he that loses his life for Jesus, will find it. This measly 90 years of life, living on a planet where satan is the god of, stinks bad. But in comparison to this life to Eternity, it is but a vapor of smoke. Give this life to Jesus so you can have a perfect life forever in Eternity.
Start another thread concerning this topic. CC is awesome place to get Godly advice from people who have been in your situation. And from what i have seen, people on CC are more than willing to try to help you.
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DiscipleDave
There is nothing more important.
He needs another Job. Yes i see. So he loves his job. Continue to be a Godly wife to him, and pray that God intervenes.
The Daily Bread is good.
He that finds his life will lose it, but he that loses his life for Jesus, will find it. This measly 90 years of life, living on a planet where satan is the god of, stinks bad. But in comparison to this life to Eternity, it is but a vapor of smoke. Give this life to Jesus so you can have a perfect life forever in Eternity.
Start another thread concerning this topic. CC is awesome place to get Godly advice from people who have been in your situation. And from what i have seen, people on CC are more than willing to try to help you.
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††† In His Holy and Precious Name, Jesus Christ †††
DiscipleDave
Hey Dave,I do understand his burden or mine I just feel bad asking him to pay is all. Even when I was younger. I wouldn’t ask my parents to do anything for me or help me out, my sister lol different story.
Just the other day when they made him work a crazy shift,he was so upset and stated something has to change.
Your 90 years old! Praise God! Yes, I always pray that God takes control of my life, my plans can’t wven compare to what he will have for me.
Thanks for advice! God Bless you
lol. i never said i was 90, i said
Which i totally get could be misinterpreted to mean that i am 90, but i am 50. i was referring to a general life of a person. Seriously that made me laugh. i will try to be more careful in the future. lol.
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DiscipleDave
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DiscipleDave