Hi, I know how you feel, my mom is like that, since we we're kids she's been hot tempered, when she became a Christian she mellowed a little bit, I know we all get to be renewed from our previous selves, I am not questioning the system or the process, it is gradually in it's proper time, but she really is impossible, I talk to her nicely but she will retort back in a very high pitched voice like she wanted to pick a fight every time, I can't talk to her without ending up in a big argument, even if I consult her for some plans, she would always give me a negative feedback and it bums me, it really brings me down. It's harder when it is your own family who is very close to your heart, it breaks me also when we fight over silly petty things, I tried understanding her and I am on the process and praying for her too. I have more to vent out but this is too long, it's just so nice to have someone to talk about having the same kind of situation.