Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

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How have you been red pilled if you've never had a wife or girlfriend?
A fool repeats his own mistakes, a rational man learns from his own mistakes, a wise man learns from others'. You don't have to jump off the window to learn the pull of gravity.
 
A fool repeats his own mistakes, a rational man learns from his own mistakes, a wise man learns from others'. You don't have to jump off the window to learn the pull of gravity.

Ah OK. Sort of a second-hand trauma type situation. I can relate. I saw some YouTube videos of food poisoning cases a while back.

Haven't eaten in 5 years since 😎👍
 
I'll be honest. I used to be pretty but I let myself go! I figured that I didn't have to try to presentable since I'm not looking to get married.

But I made the suggestion for others to try to make themselves presentable to create a "foot in the door" so to speak. I'm sure people here are wonderful, but they have to give other people the incentive to want to come to know that.

Besides, making yourself presentable is fun. Going shopping to put together the right outfit, finding a haircut and hairstyle to vastly improves your a appearance, putting on makeup in a hundred million ways that changes your look - all that takes creative and fun energy. I might want to go back to doing all that again just for that!


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Aw, I appreciate the honesty and can definitely relate to your post.

Maintenance is definitely becoming more difficult, lol. Several years ago I cut back to eating twice a day, now I'm trying to cut back to just a light snack and one meal. Getting older and things like a slowing metabolism are no joke.

And you're definitely right -- sometimes it just doesn't seem worth it. I'm always like, "Well, it's not like I'm meeting anyone anyway..."

Nowadays my motivation is more about health. I'll see people arguing over who gets the mobility scooter in stores and I know that could be me if I don't watch it.

I really hope you can get back into the fun of taking care of yourself, even if it's just a little bit at a time!! I'm not sure if you have Ulta (beauty store) there, but they have some less expensive brands than Sephora or just department stores. You might want to book an appointment with someone about how to do makeup, etc.

And YouTube is loaded with older content creators in all age ranges with visual ideas for hair, makeup, and outfits.

I'm a firm believer that everyone has a feature they can play up, at any age. :)

Here's to celebrating the beautiful you that God made! 💐
 
Aw, I appreciate the honesty and can definitely relate to your post.

Maintenance is definitely becoming more difficult, lol. Several years ago I cut back to eating twice a day, now I'm trying to cut back to just a light snack and one meal. Getting older and things like a slowing metabolism are no joke.

And you're definitely right -- sometimes it just doesn't seem worth it. I'm always like, "Well, it's not like I'm meeting anyone anyway..."

Nowadays my motivation is more about health. I'll see people arguing over who gets the mobility scooter in stores and I know that could be me if I don't watch it.

I really hope you can get back into the fun of taking care of yourself, even if it's just a little bit at a time!! I'm not sure if you have Ulta (beauty store) there, but they have some less expensive brands than Sephora or just department stores. You might want to book an appointment with someone about how to do makeup, etc.

And YouTube is loaded with older content creators in all age ranges with visual ideas for hair, makeup, and outfits.

I'm a firm believer that everyone has a feature they can play up, at any age. :)

Here's to celebrating the beautiful you that God made! 💐
For 50+, healthy is beautiful. So it is all about how to stay healthy.
But ultimately, it is in God's hand. We shall not worship health too much.
 
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Would you prefer they come with a dowry? Would that change your outlook on marriage, maybe?

Looks like I better start stocking up on goats, camels, and sheep... 🐐🐫🐑😎

What?!

Do think I'm trying to marry off MYSELF???

Golly gee. Now that would just be crazy.

I'm stocking up...

To marry off my friends.

(Look out @Lynx -- two more camels and I'm marrying you off!!) 😁

Now I just have to figure out if the prospective in-laws prefer camels with one hump or two... 🤔
 
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Aw, I appreciate the honesty and can definitely relate to your post.

Maintenance is definitely becoming more difficult, lol. Several years ago I cut back to eating twice a day, now I'm trying to cut back to just a light snack and one meal. Getting older and things like a slowing metabolism are no joke.

And you're definitely right -- sometimes it just doesn't seem worth it. I'm always like, "Well, it's not like I'm meeting anyone anyway..."

Nowadays my motivation is more about health. I'll see people arguing over who gets the mobility scooter in stores and I know that could be me if I don't watch it.

I really hope you can get back into the fun of taking care of yourself, even if it's just a little bit at a time!! I'm not sure if you have Ulta (beauty store) there, but they have some less expensive brands than Sephora or just department stores. You might want to book an appointment with someone about how to do makeup, etc.

And YouTube is loaded with older content creators in all age ranges with visual ideas for hair, makeup, and outfits.

I'm a firm believer that everyone has a feature they can play up, at any age. :)

Here's to celebrating the beautiful you that God made! 💐


Yeah, I have an Ulta store at the next town over. If my membership has expired, I should sign up again to accrue ulta points. I can wear any makeup but I do notice a lot of the higher end makeup does apply nicer and lasts longer. The color are also more appealing too.

In regard to food maybe start up a thread about food, diets and dining?

And maybe a clothes and fashion thread? Christians have to learn how to not get to carried away with all these things and find a good balance.


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Looks like I better start stocking up on goats, camels, and sheep... 🐐🐫🐑😎

What?!

Do think I'm trying to marry off MYSELF???

Golly gee. Now that would just be crazy.

I'm stocking up...

To marry off my friends.

(Look out @Lynx -- two more camels and I'm marrying you off!!) 😁

Now I just have to figure out if the prospective in-laws prefer camels with one hump or two... 🤔

Or maybe your future husband can conquer a city, like Othniel did.

Or do the thing David did to claim Michal.....OK, never mind. Forget I said anything.
 
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Or maybe your future husband can conquer a city, like Othniel did.

Or do the thing David did to claim Michal.....OK, never mind. Forget I said anything.

Fortunately, we had another CC member who covered that (and boy, did he ever cover it!!) in another thread.

He even rated the different levels of dedication according to the numbers of, um, tributes! :ROFL:

It was the best thread (well, to me) in my 17 years here and I consider the author to be a genius for putting that much work into it! 😍
 
Fortunately, we had another CC member who covered that (and boy, did he ever cover it!!) in another thread.

He even rated the different levels of dedication according to the numbers of, um, tributes! :ROFL:

It was the best thread (well, to me) in my 17 years here and I consider the author to be a genius for putting that much work into it! 😍

OK, now I want to search for this thread. But, also, I don't. :ROFL:
 
OK, now I want to search for this thread. But, also, I don't. :ROFL:


I don't know if the link will work, but I think it's on page 3 of the Singles Forum (it might get bumped further back though.)

I hope it makes you howl with laughter as much as it did for me!!

And the author is the brilliant @Charlesiii.

May his genius live on in infamy!!! :D
 

I don't know if the link will work, but I think it's on page 3 of the Singles Forum (it might get bumped further back though.)

I hope it makes you howl with laughter as much as it did for me!!

And the author is the brilliant @Charlesiii.

May his genius live on in infamy!!! :D

Haha, wow! I love this, but I also don't. :ROFL: