We know God saves so at least you have that right but why do you ignore James 1:21 that tells us to RECEIVE
There is no ignoring involved. I will answer your objections to the the point that you demonstrate an unwillingness to reason and discuss, as many on this forum do when it comes to this subject.
"Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and RECEIVE with meekness the engrafted Word, which is able to save your souls."
Why do you ignore the injunction to CHOOSE life?
I don't ignore it. We are commanded to choose, to make choices, and we do make choices every day. I have chosen to respond to your post, admittedly though with some reluctance.
Deuteronomy 30:19: "I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore
CHOOSE LIFE, that both thou and thy seed may live.”
Why do you ignore the fact we have CHOICES
Joshua 24:15: "And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, CHOOSE you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."
You're pretty quick to judge on this whole, "Ya'll ignorin'" stuff.
Why do you ignore the Psalmist who CHOSE the way of truth.
Psalm 119:30, 111, 173: "I HAVE CHOSEN THE WAY OF TRUTH: Thy Judgments have I laid before me....Thy Testimonies have I taken as an heritage for ever: for They are the rejoicing of my heart....Let Thine hand help me; for I have chosen Thy Precepts."
No ignoring here either.
Why do you ignore the fact it was the people who RECEIVED Jesus and BELIEVED in him who became the children of God?
Joh 1:12 But to all who did RECEIVE him, who BELIEVED in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.
This is just for starters.
Good. Hopefully you're up for a
discussion.
One of the things that is very destructive in churches today is that the doctrine of regeneration is no longer taught. That's the good part of it, neglect. Many churches just plain out deny the doctrine of regeneration.
Ezekiel 36
24
I will take you from the nations and gather you from all the countries and bring you into your own land. 25
I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you shall be clean from all your uncleannesses, and from all your idols
I will cleanse you. 26 And
I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 And
I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules.[a] 28 You shall dwell in the land that
I gave to your fathers, and you shall be my people, and
I will be your God. 29 And
I will deliver you from all your uncleannesses.
And I will summon the grain and make it abundant and lay no famine upon you. 30
I will make the fruit of the tree and the increase of the field abundant, that you may never again suffer the disgrace of famine among the nations. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways, and your deeds that were not good, and you will loathe yourselves for your iniquities and your abominations. 32
It is not for your sake that I will act, declares the Lord God; let that be known to you. Be ashamed and confounded for your ways, O house of Israel.
Who is the "I will"? He is accomplishing regeneration in his people. God regenerates.
Jeremiah 31:31-34
31 “The days are coming,” declares the Lord,
“when I will make a new covenant
with the people of Israel
and with the people of Judah.
32 It will not be like the covenant
I made with their ancestors
when I took them by the hand
to lead them out of Egypt,
because they broke my covenant,
though I was a husband to[a] them,
”
declares the Lord.
33 “This is the covenant I will make with the people of Israel
after that time,” declares the Lord.
“I will put my law in their minds
and write it on their hearts.
I will be their God,
and they will be my people.
34 No longer will they teach their neighbor,
or say to one another, ‘Know the Lord,’
because they will all know me,
from the least of them to the greatest,”
declares the Lord.
“For I will forgive their wickedness
and will remember their sins no more.”
Ezekiel 11:19
19 I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh.
John 6
35 Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst. 36 But I said to you that you have seen me and yet do not believe. 37 All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out. 38 For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me. 39 And this is the will of him who sent me, that I should lose nothing of all that he has given me, but raise it up on the last day. 40 For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who looks on the Son and believes in him should have eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day.”
41 So the Jews grumbled about him, because he said, “I am the bread that came down from heaven.” 42 They said, “Is not this Jesus, the son of Joseph, whose father and mother we know? How does he now say, ‘I have come down from heaven’?” 43 Jesus answered them, “Do not grumble among yourselves. 44 No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him. And I will raise him up on the last day. 45 It is written in the Prophets, ‘And they will all be taught by God.’ Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to me— 46 not that anyone has seen the Father except he who is from God; he has seen the Father. 47 Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes has eternal life. 48 I am the bread of life. 49 Your fathers ate the manna in the wilderness, and they died. 50 This is the bread that comes down from heaven, so that one may eat of it and not die. 51 I am the living bread that came down from heaven. If anyone eats of this bread, he will live forever. And the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh.”
NO ONE, can choose Jesus if the Father hasn't already chosen them. John 6 is pretty clear about that.
Regeneration then, has to be an act of God. Man isn't even part of the equation.
Roman 8
6 For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. 7 For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot. 8 Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
The unregenerate cannot submit to God, so they cannot regenerate themselves at all.
Romans 12:3
For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.
God is the one who gives men faith, not men themselves.
Ephesians 2:8-9
For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— 9 not by works, so that no one can boast.
Faith isn't something we produce.
Hebrews 12
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
What does it mean for Jesus to be the founder and perfecter of our faith?
Titus 3:5-6
5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, 6 whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior,
Regeneration is through the Spirit... (not us)
James 1:19
18 He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created.
1 Peter 1:23-25
23 For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God. 24 For,
“All people are like grass,
and all their glory is like the flowers of the field;
the grass withers and the flowers fall,
25 but the word of the Lord endures forever.”[a]
And this is the word that was preached to you.
We are perishable. Not imperishable seed. Thus we cannot make ourselves be born again.
Here's the kicker for the argument you made about receiving...
John 1:12-13
12 Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God— 13 children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.
Please note, bold words and large text are used not to indicate yelling, but to draw attention to specific details (phrases, or sections).
Thank you for your time. 
In summary:
We receive the Gospel call, we choose now this day the day of salvation, because God has not only enabled us to do so (because previously we were not able to), but has also caused us to do so.
2 Corinthians 4:6 (NASB95)
6 For God, who said, “Light shall shine out of darkness,” is the One who has shone in our hearts to give the Light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ.