Dealing with loneliness?

How do other Christian singles or married people deal with loneliness? I find that just filling my schedule, even with meaningful things, doesn’t always help. Any insight or advice would be appreciated!

Hey Jenny,
Your question is very honest. I think there is something inside of everyone, that feels a little alone. We can drown it out at times, but we crave more than this life can give. There are times we feel it more acutely. There is a verse Isaiah 61:3, that says, "Put on the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness (some versions say spirit of despair or faint spirit)". There are a lot of ways to apply this. For me, focusing on the blessings, while it doesn't change the circumstances, it alters my perspective. Being grateful doesn't minimize your depth of pain, but rather, helps you to navigate it. Loneliness can dry up the bones and make us practically disappear. Finding ways to renew your spirit is essential. I had a time where my closest friends had scattered across the globe. I was single and I had no family nearby. I decided to search out people. I deliberately started inviting people I liked, over for a meal or to meet at a restaurant. I'd make it a small group and it was wonderful. It was something little but I decided to choose my actions rather than wait for life to improve on its own. I wanted to act rather than react. I am glad that you posted this question and I glad that you are here.

There are several ways to deal with it I think. I find that getting support from church family (if you are in a church) is really vital. Helps to have sort of an atmosphere where you’re not having someone expect something from you. Just fellowship.

Also, depending on what level of social interaction you require, I find that just being amongst other people is nice. A cafe, a library, something like that.

This site used to be my antidote for loneliness, but it stopped being that some time ago... Now I just wander through my life like...

Aw Zero you are still a hero to lots of people.

This site used to be my antidote for loneliness, but it stopped being that some time ago... Now I just wander through my life like...

One interesting aspect of loneliness is our reaction to it.
" why am I lonely? there must be something wrong with me. look at all those other people. they dont look lonely. Maybe I am being punished for past sins. oh man i'm such a loser. is there any ice-cream left in the fridge?"

How do other Christian singles or married people deal with loneliness? I find that just filling my schedule, even with meaningful things, doesn’t always help. Any insight or advice would be appreciated!

The only cure ive found in singleness is the feeling you get when you witness to others about Gods goodness, His love, and who He is. Helping remind people about God, or sharing with others about Him helps fill that void.

The bible says it is better to give than to receive and Ive found this to be true. Whether you're going thru depression, loneliness, anxiety or worry. Whatever it may be, sharing with others about Jesus or helping others is a huge blessing for ones self. It feeds your Spirit. Gives a feeling of completeness.

Hope this helps give some insight.

How do other Christian singles or married people deal with loneliness? I find that just filling my schedule, even with meaningful things, doesn’t always help. Any insight or advice would be appreciated!

This site used to be my antidote for loneliness, but it stopped being that some time ago... Now I just wander through my life like...

Why do you feel lonely? When are you not lonely? Did you just go through a break up? Are you living far away from your family? How long have you been lonely?