What are some of your biggest turnoffs?
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Mine are:
- Not able to handle honest (and sometimes uncomfortable) discussions. Avoiding issues rather than dealing with them.
- Reckless with money. Getting into debt and not caring and continuing to dig deeper and deeper.
- Constantly criticizing others and finding fault with them. When I hear people constantly putting others down, I wonder how long it will be before they talk about me that way.
- Poor hygiene.
- Not being responsible.
- Not able to handle honest (and sometimes uncomfortable) discussions. Avoiding issues rather than dealing with them.
- Reckless with money. Getting into debt and not caring and continuing to dig deeper and deeper.
- Constantly criticizing others and finding fault with them. When I hear people constantly putting others down, I wonder how long it will be before they talk about me that way.
- Poor hygiene.
- Not being responsible.
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My biggest turn-off:
There aren't too many bigger than that
There aren't too many bigger than that
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I'll treat'ja right woman. Teef ain't everthin.
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So for me, I have tried websites and every man I've talked to is either rude or they want to take things too fast, like I'm sorry, but I don't believe someone else can say they are in love with me even if we haven't even known each other for barely a day, life doesn't work like it does in movies. It just seems people don't understand my disability and how I would like to get to know someone before deciding a big decision like loving someone for life.
Also, another turn off, is people only talk to me because I'm pretty (I'm just okay, not super pretty, just okay), well that's my impression because I have said it very clearly in my profile on some websites that I don't accept phone numbers, but then guys just give me their phone number, it makes me feel like you don't care who I am as a person, if you didn't even take the time to read my profile.
That's why I'm actually taking a break, it's too stressful, and I just want to make some friends that are okay with who I am, that's all.
Also, another turn off, is people only talk to me because I'm pretty (I'm just okay, not super pretty, just okay), well that's my impression because I have said it very clearly in my profile on some websites that I don't accept phone numbers, but then guys just give me their phone number, it makes me feel like you don't care who I am as a person, if you didn't even take the time to read my profile.
That's why I'm actually taking a break, it's too stressful, and I just want to make some friends that are okay with who I am, that's all.
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Particularly when it comes to the opposite sex? Here are a few of mine.
1. Too much makeup. To be honest, I used to be completely turned off by makeup altogether. But now I feel differently. I think a little makeup is okay because it shows that a woman cares about her appearance. And that's an attractive trait to me. But I still think some women overdo it.
2. Bad temper. From my experience, few things are worse in life than dealing with a woman that's pissed off at you.
3. Tattoos and piercings. Nothing against women that have either or both. It's their body and they should be able to do whatever they want with it. I just don't find either attractive personally.
Your turn. Have at it.
1. Too much makeup. To be honest, I used to be completely turned off by makeup altogether. But now I feel differently. I think a little makeup is okay because it shows that a woman cares about her appearance. And that's an attractive trait to me. But I still think some women overdo it.
2. Bad temper. From my experience, few things are worse in life than dealing with a woman that's pissed off at you.
3. Tattoos and piercings. Nothing against women that have either or both. It's their body and they should be able to do whatever they want with it. I just don't find either attractive personally.
Your turn. Have at it.
1. Words that do not line up
2. Lies
3. Pride ( refusal to bend when wrong)
4. Alcohol abuse
5. Smoking
6. Inconsideration towards one's emotions
7. Always right mentality
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Winks at sin, compromiser, not passionate about holiness
Negative, complainers, fault finders
Poor communication skills
Poor listening skills
Disagrees with me
Criticizes me
Anger, Tempers, display of irritation, cold shoulders, any kind of public scene behavior.
Scolding or correcting wait staff, store employees, etc.. (Karens)
Loud Voice
Nasal Voice
Believes in Conspiracy theories
Tattoos, nose rings or piercings
Yoga pants
Not being able or unwilling to cook TexMex
Negative, complainers, fault finders
Poor communication skills
Poor listening skills
Disagrees with me
Criticizes me
Anger, Tempers, display of irritation, cold shoulders, any kind of public scene behavior.
Scolding or correcting wait staff, store employees, etc.. (Karens)
Loud Voice
Nasal Voice
Believes in Conspiracy theories
Tattoos, nose rings or piercings
Yoga pants
Not being able or unwilling to cook TexMex
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