Why is the church so accepting of divorce and remarriage?

Most Calvary Chapels use the "Moses model" of leadership. That is, the pastor is directly below God in the chain of command, as was Moses. The elders are there to support "Moses," the pastor. This is blatantly unbiblical. Christ is the head of the Church and we are all equal in Him.

There are a lot of Calvary Chapels out there though so it's conceivable someone's experience might be different.

Hmm, IDK?
The guy that I normally listen to definitely doesn't come across that way at all. In fact, I've heard him say on several occasions that his "access to God" is no different than any believers. He doesn't speak much at all about any hierarchal position in the church other than his personal calling is that of a teacher, and that he has administrative duties particular to "head pastor".

His church is tied to the Costa Mesa church, which was founded in the 60's/70's(?) by Chuck Smith (I believe?). But they run themselves rather independently. I've looked at the website for the Costa Mesa one, but it seemed a bit too shiny and pretentious for my tastes... can't speak to anything that goes on there.

I didn't, Paul did,

Calvary Chapel, watched many sermons online and on tape from different pastors.

Pat robinson supported Newt Gingrich, even though he married 3 times and divorced his first two wives then they became sick. Not to mention the number of Pastors who supported Trump, no matter when he said or did.

OK, you named one, but you implied ALL with your post.
Do not judge ALL by what you perceive as wrong in one.
Makes you look foolish.

Hmm, IDK?
The guy that I normally listen to definitely doesn't come across that way at all. In fact, I've heard him say on several occasions that his "access to God" is no different than any believers. He doesn't speak much at all about any hierarchal position in the church other than his personal calling is that of a teacher, and that he has administrative duties particular to "head pastor".

His church is tied to the Costa Mesa church, which was founded in the 60's/70's(?) by Chuck Smith (I believe?). But they run themselves rather independently. I've looked at the website for the Costa Mesa one, but it seemed a bit too shiny and pretentious for my tastes... can't speak to anything that goes on there.

That sounds like an invitation to temptation perhaps.
What say ye?

I have listened to many Pastors, none have addressed this issue.

I really don't like it when a Christian who has much, tells me I should be thankful to GOD for what little I have.

Pat robinson supported Newt Gingrich, even though he married 3 times and divorced his first two wives then they became sick. Not to mention the number of Pastors who supported Trump, no matter when he said or did. Sto[ supporting the man. You may support some of the ideas they have, but not when they go against scripture.

The sooner you focus on yourself rather than other people the sooner you’ll be happy.

The sooner you focus on yourself rather than other people the sooner you’ll be happy.

But I'm now in the position of having to keep working into my 70's.

Because sex is very important to some, it's having the physical contact. Read the Song of Solomon. It's all about sex. Jesus and Paul were very clear, one of the reasons for getting married is to have sex.

First of all, sex is confined to the marriage bed.

Hebrews 13

4Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Whoremongers, which is elsewhere translated as fornicators, and adulterers, God will judge.

Are you looking to get married?

If you're not, then you shouldn't be thinking about sex because, again, it's confined, by God, to the marriage bed. If you are looking to get married, then marriage is about a lot more than just sex or physical contact.

Ephesians 5

25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

If you're considering marriage, then are you prepared to love your wife even as Christ loved the church? Are you willing to sacrificially give yourself for her? Are you ready to sanctify her with the washing of the word? Are you willing to love her as your own body while nourishing her and cherishing her? Or are you just looking for some physical contact? Again, sex is confined, by God, to the marriage bed, and marriage has to do with a lot more than just physical contact.

The Song of Solomon isn't all about sex. If that's all you see when you read it, then your vision is greatly blurred.

As far as what the Bible says about sex is concerned, have you ever truly considered the following?

Malachi 2

15And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed.

One of the reasons why God makes the two one in marriage is because he is seeking a godly seed.

Are you willing to be a father?

A father who will train up his child/children in the way that he/she/they should go?

Or are you just looking for some physical contact?

Women aren't pin cushions.

They're people.

They're not only somebody's daughter, but if we're talking about a Christian woman, then she is God's daughter.

Your comments about sex don't come across as being respectful to women to me.

Can you say something about a woman that isn't tied directly to sex?

Try telling a group of teens it's a sin for them to even think of sex. Have you ever read the Song of Solomon and not thought of sex. The whole book is about sex.