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In my 28 years of being on this earth I've done maybe twice, with mixed results. It never works out like the movies show. Usually its painfully obvious to begin with. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NpWAlvWNZj0 Rather than her letting you down, she waits for you to magically turn yourself...

I Think about the Differences between having a new friend and having a best friend. With a new friend you are eager to explore each other's cool stuff and learn about who they are. But a best friend is always there and wants to take on the world or the next thing. Without really getting...

The real cause of an inferiority complex has little to do with reality and it has a lot to do with how we process it. In order to get an inferiority of a complex, you have to dramatize in your head the meaning of a certain flaw. You have to tell yourself that, for example, you are so hairy you...

There are some things that know are beautiful. To me they are sublime and intoxicating to look at. But one of the things that I can't wait to know when I get to heaven is how to view it all with a sense of beauty and wonder. I want to be able to see what is beautiful about deserts and...

I wasn't always I Christian. There was a season in my life that I didn't care I just wanted to experience it all. Tonight I had a flashback to that. I have a strong foundation and a firm relationship with Christ. But I've been going to same church for 4 months and no one even recognizes me...

Ever make any major life choices about someone that you don't even know yet? Sort of like a Pregnant couple setting up a room for a child, sometimes I find myself weighing the consequences of taking one job over another in how it will affect my ability to compensate for someone else being in...

Ever been there? They say yes to going out with you all the time but, you can feel the distance in their eyes. They go shopping with you and want to dress you in all the things that "They" used to wear. Most of their Music is completely off limits. Whatever experience you have with Death...

I'm biased. But I know I'm biased, I don't think that really takes the edge off of it. I was going to make this a poll.... but I'll pass. Polls have usually long lifespans as threads because people vote or comment or something and suddenly what is dead is made to walk again. Do you want...

Imagine for a Moment the kind of person you would want to spend the rest of your life with. Imagine their character, their heart, their wisdom, their intelligence, their drive, their capacity for Compassion, their Relationship with Christ and their Depth. Look inside yourself, take note of...

Arwen83 brought to my attention something that I hadn't considered. Why style and Culture of clothing and apparel will you avoid like the plague? -I personally do not have very much attraction to any woman wearing Cowboy boots, Flannel shirts or Tight Jeans. -I suppose, like Arwen83 I'm not...

For reals yo. I get on here all the time. And even if I feel as though I have nothing to add, there is still something to see. Thank you guys for being quirky and funny and deep and thoughtful and considerate and curious and wise. Ooops... Missed the F bomb. But sometimes being here has...

I'm not talking about Dimensions, Weight, Lifestyle or Fitness. I'm talking about clothing makeup fashion and accessories. We have a thread that was nearly derailed by Appearances about what Makes a Female a Lady. We have another thread about Modesty, its about Appearances. Women seem to...

DuchessAimee... made me think realize something. I think there are different subconscious expectations about what our relationships are suppose to look like. We can all agree on some points: *We want a Christian Marriage - Meaning, a life long Christ centered Marriage. *We want to feel...

There is a lot to be said about having home field advantage in a relationship. I've noticed that when I'm in a relationship with someone and its majorly in their world and on their terms, It tends to fail miserably. I don't know if its because I'm a bad guest or what. But when its an...

As a kid I remember being out under the glow of the street lights throwing snowballs with the neighbor kids in weather that was anywhere from 40 degrees to 12 degrees. It didn't matter. I raised a baby Duck when I was a kid. I loved that thing. It was possibly the coolest pet I've ever had. I...

"But why can't I find someone who just likes me for who I am?" Love and Marriage is not a barometer of your self worth. Trying to get people to love and like you, for simply existing and being nice, is like hiring a kindergartner to do your taxes because they want to act like an adult. The...

The world is your burrito. Somewhere beyond Mad Horizon there is an adventure to be had. Once more unto the breach dear friends, once more. The game is afoot. Ditch the mortgage, live on a Sailboat. Travel, explore, learn a language, go spearfishing, snorkeling and take lots of pictures. Go...

I get so Taxed by people's garbage. I'm tired of ignoring it. I'm tired of tripping over it. I'm tired of trying to legalistically navigate my way through it. I used to think that there was something missing. If 42 + X = happiness contentment and life, then solve for X. If the material could...

...do not betray your soul. It is the only thing that will always be with you. Do not sin in your anger. Much like being under arrest, your words can and will be used against you. No matter the condition of how you perceive yourself or your circumstances, there is no advantage to eating more...

I am usually not critical of myself enough, but in this I feel I need to explain myself. I'm not talking about being "ready" I am talking about simply being worthy. A line from the Book of Daniel and A Knights Tale...... You have been weighed, you have been measured and you have been found...