I just went through a phase thinking all men are the same. Which i must be honest, my mentality has not changed. Everytime i am sorrounded by guys they tend to prove me right. Christians and none christians. It's gotten to the point i dispise all guys that even look at me and approach me. It's true young and old guys do have the same level of maturity. I dont mean to insult anyone but that's what it seems like. although, yesterday i started believing that their are special guys out there. I might not have met him yet but it made me happy to think that their is hope. How can you tell when a guy is honest and truthful? A man after God's heart. How can i tell if he is being real and not playing his game? How can i tell that he wants to get to know me because i have a brain and finds me amazing than just interested in me physically. I have seen it all, guys that are sweet and only focus on God to get my attention and then out of knowhere turn out to be players. any advice?
I also wanted to say i love my freedom, i feel like a bird that can't be stopped. I love moving when i please and how i please. I enjoy going out and helping people, nature and music. I'm kind of a free spirit, i dont know if i can commit. Most guys i meet want to tie me down, which automatically turns me off. They want me to lower myself so they can feel powerful; trying to change me to their liking, but i can't it is not that i think i am better, i just love being free.