Umm, you sure have your list and checking it twice,...I have heard that love doesn't keep score as well.
In any case, I try to keep my attacks non personal (if you dig you'll see I fail at that too).
I will attack when I deem (yikes, I'm judging

) poisonous doctrine that sickens souls is being spread, and don't count me to back down. Perhaps some of the true seekers will sense that sincerity and respect it more as a stand for truth (which I hope they are seeking) than if I give friendly nods and winks to be liked even when lies are being propagated.
Paul had a similar attitude with the Judaisers in Galatians.
I just don't see BDF as a social circle as say Miscellaneous or some other forums. The friendlies should be carried on in those.
BDF is different, it is a doctrinal free for all, where serious errors come with a smile masquerading as truth. It is no place for Rodney King, and I wish that those who cry "let's just all get along" in the midst of a heated debate would go where they all can get along. As I said, when it gets personal, then it has crossed the line.