The entire point of grace, of forgiveness of our sins, is that we draw near to God through Jesus Christ. And that my friend, is the crux of the matter, and is what is wrong with Red's theology. He puts off meeting God until the rapture, or the resurrection. But if we put off this meeting, we will not like the way it goes when it does happen.
If we are in God, now, then we will not be ashamed with Jesus appears. The opposite is also true.
Can I say that one who does not draw near to God, who uses His word and the excuse of His grace, (which is not grace at all, because they never draw near to Him, but is aborted grace,) is not saved? No, but I know from experience that I would not want to be such a one, and I do what He allows to see that this truth of this disaster is shown clearly.