ChosenbyHim, Faroukfarouk, Coban
I find myself in agreement with so much that you say in this thread, and wish you were here with me so that we could talk this through around the Word of God.
For the resurrection you are calling 'The Rapture', although made known through Paul, to the saints at Thessalonica, was not the hope He would ultimately strive for, revealed in Philippians. There was no doubt expressed by him in regard to his attaining the former, as a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, and one to whom the return of Christ could have been imminent, should Israel have repented; but there was in his attaining to the latter, as one who ran the race set before him, and for which 'faithfulness' was a vital ingredient, and to whom the mystery of Eph. had subsequently been made known.
Also, please consider, that the Church, made known by revelation to Paul as 'the Lord's prisoner', and proclaimed by Him in Eph, Col. Phil. 2Tim and Titus, was still 'hid in God' at the time that 2 Thessalonians was written.
The hope of the Church which is His body, is to 'appear' with Him in glory, when He is manifested, we will be manifested with Him, the truth of which is made known in Colossians.
There is still a work of rightly dividing to be done in regard to your understanding of the subject of this thread, I feel.
With love to all three of you in Christ Jesus.
Chris
PS please forgive the absence of references.
I am using a kindle, and am limited at the moment.
Please considee these things
Thank you.