Your issue is you believe that people are teaching a license to sin when you hear the terms "eternal security."
However that is not what's being said.
Basically it's the concept that no matter how dirty and how far you fall into the pigpen, God will always welcome you home with open arms.
That will send messages to warn you when you wander the wrong way and shine a light to call you back home.
The theological point is that you can never fall so deep into sin that God can't reach down and save you.
Should you toss yourself off the cliff of sin and debauchery and rely on God's promise to save you?
Jesus told Satan "do not tempt the Lord God"
When people sin, it grieves the Holy Spirit and God may just let the person die.
He is not required to save everyone.
Some people may think they are "elect" and can sin and live however they want. God tells us those people are not "elect" and are destined to hell because GOD CHASTENS ALL HIS CHILDREN.
If someone is not being convicted of their sins, they are probably not God's child.
However that is not what's being said.
Basically it's the concept that no matter how dirty and how far you fall into the pigpen, God will always welcome you home with open arms.
That will send messages to warn you when you wander the wrong way and shine a light to call you back home.
The theological point is that you can never fall so deep into sin that God can't reach down and save you.
Should you toss yourself off the cliff of sin and debauchery and rely on God's promise to save you?
Jesus told Satan "do not tempt the Lord God"
When people sin, it grieves the Holy Spirit and God may just let the person die.
He is not required to save everyone.
Some people may think they are "elect" and can sin and live however they want. God tells us those people are not "elect" and are destined to hell because GOD CHASTENS ALL HIS CHILDREN.
If someone is not being convicted of their sins, they are probably not God's child.
You are claiming eternal security is "no matter how dirty and how far you fall into the pigpen, God will always welcome you home with open arms."
Here is the problem. If one becomes an apostate, blasphemer, there is no acceptance,
but for you it appears you are destined still for heaven.
For me there is only the walk or being lost.
And claiming you are saved/chosen no matter how you behave after the point of salvation,
is a license to do what you think is right in your own eyes.
The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.
Proverbs 12:15
A person may think their own ways are right, but the Lord weighs the heart.
Prov 21:2
In those days there was no king in Israel, but every man did that which was right in his own eyes.
Judges 17:6