You have to let him do his thing. Some will, forever, understand only terror and fear, and perhaps never come to know loving awe and respect as motivators for their devotion to God.
I love God and also fear God. He is the One who has the power over life and death and he is the one who chooses us. In light of this, you might want to do what I did many years ago and that is to highlight everywhere that the word "fear the Lord" appear. I came across this phrase so many times that I was continually highlighting this in both the old and new testament. Here is some prophesying from Mary, the mother of Jesus:
"And Mary said:“My soul glorifies the Lord
and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior,
for he has been mindful
of the humble state of his servant.
From now on all generations will call me blessed,
for the Mighty One has done great things for me—
holy is his name.
His mercy extends to those who fear him,
from generation to generation."
The love and fear God go hand in hand. Jesus had this to say to his disciples and therefore all believers:
"Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell. " - Matt.10:28
Strong's Concordance
phobeó: to put to flight, to terrify, frighten
Original Word: φοβέομαι
Part of Speech: Verb
Transliteration: phobeó
Phonetic Spelling: (fob-eh'-o)
Short Definition: I fear, am terrified
Definition: I fear, dread, reverence, am afraid, terrified.
If Daniel, one who was highly esteemed trembled in God's presence, then this the right spirit before God:
"I, Daniel, was the only one who saw the vision; those who were with me did not see it, but such terror overwhelmed them that they fled and hid themselves. So I was left alone, gazing at this great vision; I had no strength left, my face turned deathly pale and I was helpless. Then I heard him speaking, and as I listened to him, I fell into a deep sleep, my face to the ground. A hand touched me and set me trembling on my hands and knees. He said, “Daniel, you who are highly esteemed, consider carefully the words I am about to speak to you, and stand up, for I have now been sent to you.” And when he said this to me, I stood up trembling."
"the LORD delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love."
If there was anyone to fear, it would be God.