Womens Punishment ended?

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proverbs35

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@ discipledave:

Since you are questioning if the men will rule, master, dominate women consequence (you say punishment) of Gen 3:16 has ended, I would like to answer your question further by providing some modern, real life examples of men ruling, master, dominating women from my own community:
Robin Penton admitted killing his wife because she talked too much. Police testified that he admitted later, "She didn't deserve it."
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Okay women? The bible is clear that women should obey there husbands and in fact this was a common vow at the wedding. However man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. That's a whole lot of love. Let the man lead and let the wife give suttle advice. Sarah said to Abraham put out the bond women and her child and God said listen to your wife. Amen
 

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But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant. Matt 23:11

Thanks Mom
 

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You take yourself too seriously. You are sinning right now with your haughty spirit.
Where you have gone astray is judging those whom you do not know. It is up to God to judge eternally and not you.

God said the things you mention in his word. He wasnt speaking solely to YOU.
God also said that you will lose your lampstand if you do not return to your first love.
Are you saying that you are infallible?
I like that word haughty. It rhymes with naughty.
 
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My son is giving birth here:

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DiscipleDave

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It seems like a plausible explanation - throwing a torch into the forum, and watching people scramble as they try to get away from the flames. And then laughing!
And is it Godly to take thought? Think the worse instead of the better?

Sadly, Dave goes on these rants from time to time. He thinks he is some kind of prophet of God,
Correction, i don't think i am, i know i am. There is a difference.

but he doesn't really know the Bible well enough to be a prophet and contradicts the Bible frequently.
lol i have read the entire Bible over 90 times in my life. Listen to it on my mp3 player daily, and you say i don't know the Bible. Most kids their Mother read them kid books. My Mom read the Bible to me, even when i was in her womb. My Mom was called to be a Nun, and then she fell in love with my Dad, she felt so bad about not becoming a Nun, she prayed to God that she would dedicate her firstborn son to God. And here i am. i have had conversations with God. Had many Dreams of the Future. Had many visions of the Future, Spoke with Angels of God, and i am now living a life free of all sinning, because Jesus Christ lives in me, and He is my Strength and Power against every single temptations that comes my way.

Is it Godly to accuse another without giving the proof of your accusations? You accuse me of contradicting the Bible, yet do not give one example of this to back up your false accusation against a servant of God. If then YOU claim that i teach thing contrary to Scriptures then reveal it. Do you know why i know you can't reveal it, nor will you reveal it. Because what God told me, and i teach, is what the Word of God teaches also. But if you think you can do it, and not be a false accuser of the brethren, then show anywhere at all where i have taught something contrary to Scriptures. The Truth is, what i teach is contrary to what YOU believe is the TRUTH, and therefore YOU THINK i teach things contrary to Scriptures. But let us see if you will do the Godly thing and back up your accusation against me, saying i teach things contrary to the Scriptures. Show it.

It is really a bad thing that we currently have so many false prophets in this forum. I guess we do need to be aware that wolves do come in sheep's clothing.
Do you not know who the wolves are. Wolves obey satan (knowingly and willingly commit sin) all the while claiming that Jesus lives in them, that Jesus is their Master and Savior, yet they knowingly and willingly obey His enemy and commit sin, because they LOVE to sin, else they would cease to sin against Jesus Christ. These are the wolves. Those who claim to live for Jesus but obey satan. My every thought from the time i wake up till i go to bed is to serve Jesus, i do not obey my Lord Jesus enemy and commit sin. The Holy Ghost is given to them that OBEY JESUS. Is it any wander than many claim they know the TRUTH by the Holy Ghost, yet they continue to obey satan and live in sins. How then do they know the TRUTH when they willingly walk in sin? Do you willingly commit sin? That is to say Do you willingly obey satan when you are tempted to commit sin?

"Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves." Matt 7:15

Beware of those who claim to be followers of Jesus Christ, yet willingly and knowingly follow satan by committing sins. KNOWINGLY full well they are sinful, but do them anyways. Beware of them, and do not listen to anything they teach. These are they are that claim to be in the light (with Jesus) but walk in darkness (willingly commit sins). These are they that claim to be a Good Tree, all the while some of their fruits are wicked and evil. Any Tree that is Good, does not produce any bad fruits.

You believe what men have taught you. i can do nothing but believe what God has told me. Is it my fault you do not believe God speaks to people today?

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DiscipleDave

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Oh luckily he isn't married. I started to feel for his wife. Sweetheart can you lead me? Yes as a punishment. Sweet.
And this statement is from a Godly person? By saying "Luckily he isn't married" is this said because you love me, or making fun of me? Are you edifying, or belittling me?

Those who do not LOVE ONE ANOTHER, are not of God.

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DiscipleDave

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Originally Posted by Utah


Your statement seems to imply there's something wrong with being single. Many singles feel like they're second class citizens who are cast aside in their congregations because married folk look down on them.

Hmmm...
No if someone thinks like that, that he wants to rule over a woman as a punishment, it is really no wonder that he's single.
So what voices have you been listening to, that has told you i thought husbands should rule over their wives as a punishment? This is NOT the TRUTH, therefore where do untruths come from? i have never said such a thing. What i did do is Plainly teach what Scriptures teach. But look how easy it is to attack me, instead of God who clearly teaches that.

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(punishment) of Gen 3:16 was done for their benefit it is not a punishment. The word of God also said I should obey God over man.
 

DiscipleDave

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Originally Posted by Utah


Yes, today your post was ironic because usually you are edifying.
What woman in her right mind would want anything to do with man who thinks what he does about women. Really, what are you smoking?
Are you presuming to judge me and what i think? How is it, if i merely teach that the Bible says the husband shall Rule over the wife. (Which is a TRUE statement because that is what the Bible plainly teaches) How than is it directed AT ME and what i think? Are you then condemning me because i believe the Scriptures?

Scriptures are TRUE, what this generation teaches is LIES.

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Who said God does not speak to people today?
He sometimes speaks to me in my dreams.
Aren't there Christians even today who can tell others about things of their life. I know there are, I have seen it.
 

DiscipleDave

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Originally Posted by Angela53510


It seems like a plausible explanation - throwing a torch into the forum, and watching people scramble as they try to get away from the flames. And then laughing!

Sadly, Dave goes on these rants from time to time. He thinks he is some kind of prophet of God, but he doesn't really know the Bible well enough to be a prophet and contradicts the Bible frequently.

It is really a bad thing that we currently have so many false prophets in this forum. I guess we do need to be aware that wolves do come in sheep's clothing.

"Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves." Matt 7:15
PSALM 7

14 Whoever is pregnant with evil
conceives trouble and gives birth to disillusionment.
15 Whoever digs a hole and scoops it out
falls into the pit they have made.
16 The trouble they cause recoils on them;
their violence comes down on their own heads.
Awesome verses. Tell me, if a person continues to do that which is evil without ever ceasing from it, How are they NOT pregnant with evil? Anyone who continues to live in sins, is indeed pregnant with evil and Can't come to the TRUTH, because of the evil which is inside them. Their heart is not right with God when they freely choose to commit sin, which they know full well is sinful, yet choose to do it anyways. Scriptures are TRUE, anyone who is pregnant with evil will be disillusioned, they will believe falseness, and lies, they hearken to sugar coated truths, And they WILL NOT accept the TRUTH when they hear it, because they are disillusioned, and they are disillusioned because of the evil that they continue to do, without ever ceasing from them. These are UNABLE TO come to the Truth, because it is not in them to know the Truth, because of their heart that chooses to sin instead of looking to Jesus for Strength and Power to overcome ALL temptations.

"their violence comes down on their own heads" Scriptures plainly teach.

Rom_2:9 Tribulation and anguish, upon every soul of man that doeth evil, of the Jew first, and also of the Gentile;

That include those who profess to be Christians as well. So continue to live in those sins that you are unwilling to get out of your life and see if you don't fall into the pit that you yourself have made for you to fall into. But those who seek Jesus and to walk in the light as Jesus did, these have hope.

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I was actually being sarcastic. But this will be our 5th child and all have been done at home with many of the natural aids you mentioned. There is still pain, but it is a physical pain that is often overlooked because of the immense spiritual blessing throughout.

Regardless thank you for your prayers about her delivery!
I didn't think u were being so... ah, it is good to hear your wife gives birth at home, wc is lots different at the hospital. Although many hospitals are now allowing mothers some of their requests, are they not, like piped music at the labor room, etc. etc. wc weren't done before. I am glad to hear of her positive spiritual outlook, and in fact when I first researched on natural birth online wc wasn't long ago, bec. before I only had a book or two to learn abt it, not the internet! now it is more of the scientific an physical aspect explained and emphasized, not the spiritual. I only hope more young ladies who plan to have kids will explore this and see how good the Lord is, even in childbirth.
 
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The title is misleading. It does not pertain to the body of your writing. Thats all I have to say as far as this OP concerned.
It is crystal clear this thread is to start a fight . Threads like these re so obvious.
You may have done a good thing by writing an edifying thread about the position of the husband to love as Christ loves his church. Instead you choose to misinterpret the word RULE.
I see the spirit behind your perverted interpretation.
I still stand on this. You have deluded yourself to teach. A shepherd doesnt beat the sheep back into the pen but he gently guides to the narrow gate.

God didnt call you to teach. Period
 

DiscipleDave

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Jesus changed it.
You do well in trying to answer the question that i presented. Most seem to assume all manner of things against me because i merely asked the question.

You say Jesus changed it, how so?

A controlling woman is wrong and the N.T. also says she has to obey,
Careful, that sounds like the TRUTH of Scriptures, and you are now opening yourself up to be attacked by those who do not believe Scriptures to be correct. Just warning you. If i say Scriptures says she has to obey, i would be stoned and cast down the hillside for saying what Scriptures plainly teach. But hey, its the generation we live in.


but it's not a curse or a punishment anymore.
True, it is not, nor ever was a curse, but it was a punishment given to Eve for disobeying God. In the same verse it states child birth would be painful. This is a punishment given to women because Eve disobeyed God. Labor pain has not ceased. So that part of the punishment still continues to this very day, that is evident, and surely no one will argue with that (who am i kidding, i know this generation) Anyway when God was giving out the punishments to man and woman. This is what God said to the woman. Please NOTE, it is not what i am saying, so please don't attack me because i am quoting the Scriptures.

Gen_3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

The whole reason i started this post, was not to attack women, was not to belittle women, it was not to start a debate about how wives are to treat their husbands. i was asking when did the last part of the punishment God gave to the woman ended? That is my question. If you want to discuss if what the word RULE means, then start a thread about that. If you want to discuss if a woman should be Ruled over by her husband, start a thread about that. And because i merely asked this question DON'T ASSUME you know what i think or believe, or ASSUME the reason i have asked this question. This thread presented a question concerning the punishment that God DID give the woman, and when did it end? If you think you know the answer, then answer it. If you don't know the answer, then why are you responding with posts that is irrelevant to the OP and the question that was asked?

It can be annoying if the guy is not saved and bossy, but if she does that and he doesn't leave he gets saved. She lays her life for him down then out of love.
So what you are saying, is she needs to respond based on what he does or doesn't do, if he is Saved or not Saved. How you act toward your husband should be solely on what God wants you to do, regardless what your husband is doing or not doing. Scriptures teach (NOT I) that women are to obey their husbands. It does not say women are to obey their husband if they ______________________.

A controlling man is the same as a controlling woman. It's a demon of control that's in charge. Not really the christian marriage God wants.
Tell me which of these two women is God pleased with.

A woman is married to a controlling husband, so she does not obey him like the Word says to because he is controlling, unsaved, and she argues with him, and fights with him constantly.

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A woman is married to a controlling husband, but she obey him because that is what God told her to do in His Word. So even though he is controlling, unsaved, she obeys him, NOT to please her husband, but to please God.

Which of these two women does God smile down upon and will Bless abundantly?

It is not about what your husband is doing or not doing, You should live by the Bible because that is what God says to do. PERIOD. Woe to this generation, they have an excuse for everything under the sun.

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DiscipleDave

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Originally Posted by DiscipleDave


Would someone be so kind to show me in Scriptures where the punishment given to women by GOD has ended?

Gen_3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

This is a Punishment That God gave to women for eating of the forbidden fruit.

So then my question is, WHO changed it? Who said that women are equal with men? Who said the husband WILL NOT rule over them? Who said the punishment has ended for women?

So go ahead and call me male chauvinist, or a chauvinistic pig, or whatever else you want to call me to make yourself feel better, but it will not change the TRUTH of God. Woe to this generation for the women have become men, and the men have become women.

IF God said Husband will rule over the wife. Satan teaches "NOT SO" Women are equal to men. Satan will teach contrary to what God teaches. If God says "Wives obey your husband in everything". satan will teach contrary "Wives you do not have to obey your husbands" Now in this wicked (last days generation) Women wear the pants and men just do whatever their wives say to do "or else" satan has turned this world around, and now women rule over their husbands.

But now you have NO excuses. i have told you the TRUTH, if you do not live by what the Scriptures teach, then you are living by what satan teaches. Sugar coat it all you want to, but those who continue to NOT live in the Word of God, will NOT be taken up with Him when He returns. You have been warned.

Let the stone throwing begin.

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First Disciple Dave I notice you aren't married...hummm. You know of all the uplifting and edifying things you could share,you chose this subject.
If the Holy Spirit of God puts it on my heart to ask the question about when the punishment given to women by God has ended, i am going to do it, despite already knowing it will cause people to hate me even more. What then, i should not obey the prompting of the Holy Spirit so that women can like me? Or should i do what God instructs me to do despite the reaction it returns from this generation?

We have a lost and dying world,yet you chose to make a thread on this.
i was led to ask the question When did the punishment given to women by God ended? That is what i asked, what this thread has turned into, is what others have made it.

"There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus."


This is True, but it does not negate the Scriptures in what it teaches specifically to Husband, specifically to wives, specifically to children, and many other things it specifically addresses.

So if we are the body,why are so many still so lost in this world?
Well one reason is because this lost world doesn't like to live by the Word of God and what it says they should live, is a Big problem and the reason for this lost world. Scriptures teach to LOVE ONE ANOTHER, this world does not do that. Scriptures teach for Husband to love their wives, this world does not do that. Scriptures teach for Wives to obey/submit to their husbands, this world does not do that.


Why dont you make a thread about that instead of kicking up dust for no good reason. Just a thought...
So you are like the others? You think i asked the question to kick up dust for no good reason? This thread was asking a question when did the punishment to women given to Eve by God, has ended. Have you rebuked, reproved everyone who has responded OFF TOPIC? Or is it easier for you to just accuse me of starting this post for no good reason but to kick up dust?

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DiscipleDave

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What do you have against women Dave?
What voice has told you that i have something against women? i have nothing against women or men. What does that have anything to do with my question that i presented in the OP?

Is it any wonder that your single?
No, because i choose to be celibate, my life is only to please God, i live and breathe to please God. i wear a wedding ring, and when women ask me about it, i tell them "i am married to Jesus" imagine the looks i get from them then. i have women in my life that i take care of. i have Mom, Ex-wife, Aunt on my Mom's side, Aunt on my Dad's side. All of these are single and have no man to take care of things for them. So i do that for them. I fix things that break in their homes, i remodels whatever they want done, i mow yards for them, i am at their beck and call. If they ask me for something, i do it. There are many who would like to have me as their husband, but i plainly tell them, i am married to Jesus, i have enough women who love and adore me, i love them, and i love everyone. i am single, NOT because i have no choice in the matter, i am single because i choose to be married to God and please only HIM, not myself. i have been celibate for over 9 years, and i will most certainly be that way until i die, or He comes for me. i choose to be like Christ.

I don't believe that you understand the biblical role of the husband in a marriage.
You can't possibly know what i understand or don't understand concerning the husband and the wife in a marriage, i have not revealed that to you or anywhere in this thread. What i have been discussing which you and others can't seem to, or won't grasp, is talking about what the Scriptures says and teaches, has nothing to do with what i believe or understand.

Your post paints a very bleak picture of what a woman is to expect by getting married.
How so? Please back up your accusation that i have done this. Name me one thing that i have said that paints a bleak picture of what a woman is to expect by getting married, except that i said they should obey the Bible and what it says. NOW if YOU believe the Bible paints a bleak picture, then say that. But i have not done that.

Your logic on this topic is very fuzzy, lacks warmth and is misguided.
The Topic of this post, was a Question presented as to when did the punishment that God gave to all women had ended. That is the Topic of this Thread. Now others have come into this thread and changed it altogether, and i have been merely replying to anyone who has addressed me in a post.

Also how is it MY LOGIC, when all i have done is present what Scriptures teach?

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DiscipleDave

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That's the same as asking if the punishment for man, who was with Eve and ate only seconds after she did, if his punishment of hard labor is over. The answer to both is no, it won't be over till judgement day.
i commend you, for answering the question that i presented in the OP. i just hoped this thread would have stayed on coarse.

But it is happening on both sides. The husband wants his wife to join him in hard labor so they make more money.
Such is the generation we live in. It is hard for the rich to enter into Heaven, so let both husband and wife work making it harder to get into Heaven, if the Scriptures are to be believed.

If the poor are Blessed, would it not be better to choose to be poor and Blessed than to be rich and harder to get to Heaven?

With the work comes the privileges- he can't expect her to share in his punishment and not also in his privilege. Therefore you have two managers, two heads of the house, and chaos.
This is not how God set it up, This is how man sets it up, Therefore many marriages are NOT Blessed by God and end in divorce.

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