Women DON'T always have a choice in who they engage in intercourse with. Like if someone slips her a mickey in a drink, or bottle of water. Or the woman who gets attacked and dragged somewhere and raped. Or even if she's at home and a robber or somebody breaks in to rob and rape and kill her.
In their right, sane and sober mind, then yes they DO have a choice. When taken by force or surprise attack, they have no control over what happens to them.. JMO