I think youre right, Kodiak, plain and simple, dont ask if you cant handle the answer...but (pun not intended at all...lol), on a completely different, yet related, note, some of us are having all sorts of issues and are on neverending searches for compliments...and despite this being an awfully bad idea...this is how a great number of girls functions...now, if that girl happens to be YOUR girlfriend, I want you (and every other guy as well) to think this over: How bad would it be if you just told her her butt looks great even if it dont? She'd be happy, and the lying part...? Well, think of it as counselling...She aint asking bout her butt, shes begging you for a compliment...I think a husband should give her that...