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^^^ Well at least this "Chinese Restaurant Hand Game" went a lot better than I thought... At first, I thought the girls were saying, "And I said my name is E-I, E-I, O..."

Either that, or I thought it was going to go something like, "I went to a Chinese restaurant... and ordered a big side of chihuahua..."
 
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MollyConnor

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I would much rather do them side by side and talk about our day that way they get done faster and be more enjoyable.
True, but if the wife has already cooked the meal, it's really nice for the husband to offer. I guess because I've seen my aunt always cook for my uncle and she tells me that it would be nice if he offered to at least wash the dishes every once in a while, but he doesn't. :(
And yes, she has a full-time job outside of the house. I feel like if both of them work outside of the home, then they should both contribute to helping clean the house.
 

Blain

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Okay so I don't get this. when a women asks her hubby or boyfriend does this make me look fat you say no and you are being honest. why do they never believe you?
 
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cmarieh

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True, but if the wife has already cooked the meal, it's really nice for the husband to offer. I guess because I've seen my aunt always cook for my uncle and she tells me that it would be nice if he offered to at least wash the dishes every once in a while, but he doesn't. :(
And yes, she has a full-time job outside of the house. I feel like if both of them work outside of the home, then they should both contribute to helping clean the house.
I suppose it would be helpful every now and then, but I like the thought of working together to get dinner on the table and cleaning up afterwards so that there is more time to spend with each other.
 

blue_ladybug

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Okay so I don't get this. when a women asks her hubby or boyfriend does this make me look fat you say no and you are being honest. why do they never believe you?

Lie!.jpg .... this is why... :eek:
 
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jennymae

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lol, I can't lie...I don't understand why one would want to lie either. If you don't want the truth, don't ask me....
I think youre right, Kodiak, plain and simple, dont ask if you cant handle the answer...but (pun not intended at all...lol), on a completely different, yet related, note, some of us are having all sorts of issues and are on neverending searches for compliments...and despite this being an awfully bad idea...this is how a great number of girls functions...now, if that girl happens to be YOUR girlfriend, I want you (and every other guy as well) to think this over: How bad would it be if you just told her her butt looks great even if it dont? She'd be happy, and the lying part...? Well, think of it as counselling...She aint asking bout her butt, shes begging you for a compliment...I think a husband should give her that...:D
 

kodiak

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I think youre right, Kodiak, plain and simple, dont ask if you cant handle the answer...but (pun not intended at all...lol), on a completely different, yet related, note, some of us are having all sorts of issues and are on neverending searches for compliments...and despite this being an awfully bad idea...this is how a great number of girls functions...now, if that girl happens to be YOUR girlfriend, I want you (and every other guy as well) to think this over: How bad would it be if you just told her her butt looks great even if it dont? She'd be happy, and the lying part...? Well, think of it as counselling...She aint asking bout her butt, shes begging you for a compliment...I think a husband should give her that...:D
That is a good point, my post was just in reference to the clothing thing though. I would hate to tell her that the dress looks nice on her if it doesn't and she finds out later after a lot of people see it....I think that would be worse...Am I thinking too much into these things?
 

melita916

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"hey, mel. i put the STUD in bible STUDy!"

hahahaha
 

blue_ladybug

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"hey, mel. i put the STUD in bible STUDy!"

hahahaha
You DO know that a stud is a male horse, or a really hot guy, right? Far as I know, you're neither a horse or a guy.. ;) :eek:
 
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jennymae

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That is a good point, my post was just in reference to the clothing thing though. I would hate to tell her that the dress looks nice on her if it doesn't and she finds out later after a lot of people see it....I think that would be worse...Am I thinking too much into these things?
LOL, arent you sweet:)? Well, next thing she is gonna ask you is why it dont look good on her...why dont you rather tell her what dress she looks good in? :)
 

melita916

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You DO know that a stud is a male horse, or a really hot guy, right? Far as I know, you're neither a horse or a guy.. ;) :eek:
my quote is what the guy would say to me. not me to the guy lol
 

p_rehbein

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You DO know that a stud is a male horse, or a really hot guy, right? Far as I know, you're neither a horse or a guy.. ;) :eek:
And a piece of lumber that is used to frame houses with......... :) Just remember though, if you shuffle up stud............you get DUST! Which is what all studs eventually turn into.
 
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Deliver

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"You have the most beautiful, caring personality of anyone I've ever met and I love you for it."

I think when a guy adds in the kind of words like "I've ever met", comparing you to something and making you outshine everyone he's met, that's enough!