Unwritten dating rules

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DuchessAimee

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seoulsearch said:
The only problem is... when one say, "No inappropriate groping..."

My mind starts to wonder what exactly APPROPRIATE groping might be.

My mind is a scary place to be.
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Please, PLEASE make this a thread. I'll give you a dollar and everything!


 
Trailblazer

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There is,or use to be a three date rule. That rule could get many Christians having convictions.
Basically after three dates. There seemed to be enough chemistry, closeness, and friendship to take things further in the worldly way as a relationship.
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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DuchessAimee said:
Please, PLEASE make this a thread. I'll give you a dollar and everything!


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LOL Aimee!! The thing is,

I'm just not sure how I could write a thread such as, "How To Discern Appropriate Types of Groping While On a Date and Utilize Them" without getting banned! :D
 
Trailblazer

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zeroturbulence said:
POP QUIZ!!


Q: Is the woman below having a good first date or a bad first date?



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Obviously Yes!
He asked her if she would like to come to his place and play some Wii video games with him.
She was so happy, She just couldn't wait. So she jumped out of the car to take the shortcut across the park to his place.
 
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ELECT

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Lynx said:
So let's write them already!

I was recently informed that it is a rule that after a date you wait two days before calling the person you dated. I'm glad I found out about that - I'm the kind of person I would have called her the next day. What are some other unwritten rules?

I expect we will take a few humorous side-trips in this thread, but the main intent is serious. Help some singles out here, what are the unwritten rules that we probably don't know about?
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I think the unwritten rules are to be unwritten because they were written by traditional men and women and ignorant people just run with it even Christians
 
Agricola

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Men should never tell their date that the number one woman in their life will always be mother.
 
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ELECT

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Agricola said:
Men should never tell their date that the number one woman in their life will always be mother.
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Why is that ? because some women admire that in my part of the world

[h=1]You can always tell how a man will treat his wife by the way he treats his mother.”[/h]
 
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ELECT

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Dont Never Ever Ever Ever go in her purse.
Not even if she asks just don't do it.
 
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Lynx

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Er... why would we go in her purse? That's one thing I was raised that you Just. Don't. Do. I won't even dig in my grandmother's purse when she asks me to get something out of it. I bring the purse to her.
 
blue_ladybug

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Lynx said:
Er... why would we go in her purse? That's one thing I was raised that you Just. Don't. Do. I won't even dig in my grandmother's purse when she asks me to get something out of it. I bring the purse to her.
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You have two choices..go through her purse or lose ten fingers? Which would you choose? lol :) mwahahahahahaha
 
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arwen-undomiel

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If you pray in public before meals, be mindful what you pray for. "God thank you for bringing us together, I think she is the one you are blessing me with" Yikes. I suddenly have the sensation to go to the washroom and not come back.

My ex would say a blessing in German- always thought that was cute.
 
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violakat

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arwen-undomiel said:
Women should dress appropriately as well. Classy. Or jeans and boots. No low cut stuff, Christian males will run away -hopefully. Makeup or no makeup whatever, but tone it down. Don't drown yourself in perfume. Gossiping or bringing up people he doesn't know and venting about them is a BIG no no. But it might be could for him to know, so he could dodge that bullet if that's something that really bothers him. On the second date, if you guys are getting the hint that you both like each other, maybe forget to bring your cardigan or extra coat and ask to wear his ;) teehee.
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Don't wear it, PERIOD. You never know when someone's allergic. And the same goes for men, don't wear cologne for the first few dates.
 
violakat

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ELECT said:
Why is that ? because some women admire that in my part of the world

You can always tell how a man will treat his wife by the way he treats his mother.”
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It's one thing to treat to your mother with love and respect. Another thing to make her the number one woman in your life, even after you are married. That's why women would have a problem with this.
 
seoulsearch

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Inu said:
No inappropriate groping....
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seoulsearch said:
The only problem is... when one say, "No inappropriate groping..."

My mind starts to wonder what exactly APPROPRIATE groping might be.

My mind is a scary place to be.
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The first thing my mind says when it reads "No inappropriate groping" is, "YES!!! Appropriate groping is TOTALLY allowed!!!"

Now if only someone can give me a legally foolproof definition of "appropriate"...
 
Agricola

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seoulsearch said:
The first thing my mind says when it reads "No inappropriate groping" is, "YES!!! Appropriate groping is TOTALLY allowed!!!"

Now if only someone can give me a legally foolproof definition of "appropriate"...
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Appropriate is for the boy NOT to be caught by the girls father!
 
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Inu

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biscuit said:
For the longest time, this was virtually non-existent with women. But today, it is becoming somewhat common for women to grope. I think men are still the worst but women have come a long way to a distance second place. I was going to give an example but forgot for a moment I was on a Christian board.:)
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You must be referring to "no moob groping" :D
 
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Inu

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seoulsearch said:
The only problem is... when one say, "No inappropriate groping..."

My mind starts to wonder what exactly APPROPRIATE groping might be.

My mind is a scary place to be.
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Can one grope another's hand? This may count as appropriate.... lol:D:rolleyes:
 
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Inu

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Roh_Chris said:
WHAT??? :eek:

And make her watch me struggle to lift a 1 lb dumb-bell??? I will work out by myself, thank you very much! :rolleyes:
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You struggle with a 1Lb dumb-bell????? :eek:
 
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