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You assume too much sir but I see how you could have read it that way, I could have worded the OP better. I was more aiming at core qualities we could all agree on but perhaps I failed even in that. Obviously everyone has their own specific tastes and wants.....Like Liamson has a thing about women that buck social trends for example.....that's not in the list but he finds that attractive. Trying to make a post about what everyone finds attractive and what absolutely everyone values in another's personality is impossible. I didn't think there was any need to point out the obviousness of that.
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Can be trusted to be loyal, faithful, and isn't interested in the games "secular" women play. Is willing to be honest and work through any problems you may have as a couple.
Every watch the news, dateline etc, non-secular women are as bad or worse, head games , lying etc..try reading or watching the news there friend! Non secular does not define christian behaviour
Every watch the news, dateline etc, non-secular women are as bad or worse, head games , lying etc..try reading or watching the news there friend! Non secular does not define christian behaviour
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Hey buddy, while it would be difficult to overlook the world's ugliest woman. I'd consider her.
When I look for women... I do my best to not care a bit about her appearance... That means her weight, "beauty," race, height, I try not to care. Actually, height is something I may sometimes care about since most women don't want a shorter guy. So, in theory its a lot more efficient for me to overlook taller women. Women can be superficial too.
Also, attraction can be helped. It can be helped by guidance. What I mean is that I can find a non-Christian girl attractive both physically and personality-wise and guess what?! I can choose NOT to pursue her. The same can be said about attractive Christian girls. However, this would only be applied to physical attraction which is like dirt in comparison to inner beauty... Even though I find physically attractive Christian women, I can choose to choose a spiritually attractive woman instead with blind eyes. (blind eyes meaning she can be ugly or beautiful on the outside)
[h=3]Proverbs 31:30[/h]
[SUP]30 [/SUP]Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
When I look for women... I do my best to not care a bit about her appearance... That means her weight, "beauty," race, height, I try not to care. Actually, height is something I may sometimes care about since most women don't want a shorter guy. So, in theory its a lot more efficient for me to overlook taller women. Women can be superficial too.
Also, attraction can be helped. It can be helped by guidance. What I mean is that I can find a non-Christian girl attractive both physically and personality-wise and guess what?! I can choose NOT to pursue her. The same can be said about attractive Christian girls. However, this would only be applied to physical attraction which is like dirt in comparison to inner beauty... Even though I find physically attractive Christian women, I can choose to choose a spiritually attractive woman instead with blind eyes. (blind eyes meaning she can be ugly or beautiful on the outside)
[h=3]Proverbs 31:30[/h]
[SUP]30 [/SUP]Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
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Thank you so much for saying what most people think, non-secular gun totin' cement headed folks that copy/paste srcript should have thier posts deleted. The last political convention, conservative so called christians had twice the budget of the democrats...guess where..strip bars and alcohol, public record. Defend that holy roller....
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The last political convention, so called Christisian conservatives had twice the budget of democrats, strip bars and alcohol..public record. The last huge child porn sring....conservation "christians' catholic priests, teachers etc.. the largerst consumers of porn and child porn is the US by an exponential factor.
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People may not say this directly. But if the prevalent attitude is that 'liking good looking people is shallow' that essentially ends up being the message. 'Attractive' people are already demonized to a degree by many. When you look at someone who is attractive by general standards with another people, a woman for example, people don't generally think 'oh wow, she is so pretty, she must be such a wonderful person'. Most people think 'oh yeah, shes hot, we know why he picked her'. Which is, in essence, assuming she has nothing to offer him but eye candy and hes shallow for being with her.
I will be the first chick to admit (well maybe not, but i can't be bothered to read EVERY post...lol) looks matter to me and i don't believe it doesn't matter to any other woman out there.
That said, the assumption when someone says that is that they are claiming to desire the social/cultural ideal of beauty/handsomeness in another individual but thats not necessarily the case. What attracts me...what IIII find handsome isn't necessarily in line with what others consider attractive. If i were to say i prefer a podgier guy and that i'm not attracted to the built "greek adonis" look, am i still shallow? Or does that really only depend on the nature of my preference rather than the fact that i have one at all.
That said, the assumption when someone says that is that they are claiming to desire the social/cultural ideal of beauty/handsomeness in another individual but thats not necessarily the case. What attracts me...what IIII find handsome isn't necessarily in line with what others consider attractive. If i were to say i prefer a podgier guy and that i'm not attracted to the built "greek adonis" look, am i still shallow? Or does that really only depend on the nature of my preference rather than the fact that i have one at all.
