I've seen metion of men doing some handyman jobs so housework is a womans job...well this woman can and does also cut grass, change toilet seats, kills bugs, can change tires if i have to...it doesnt hurt a fellow to rinse up after himself every once in a while. A couple should balance eachother out. Why cant we share all the chores/experiences ? I love getting my hands dirty working on things..
Well said! Completely agree. Every couple is different with different skills and interests, they figure it out.
If you were referencing my post, I hope you caught I specifically referenced the OP's "woman groups who complain men don't help with housework". I was asking if those specific 'complaining women' were aware what the husband/partner was doing when, apparently, not doing what they termed as "housework". So I wasn't talking about you or all women. And wasn't saying any divisions of labor are some sort of a rule. But also we know how the vast majority of households divide things in general.
I'm assuming both of us are not married or living with a partner, and so I'm sure you aren't 'complaining' either. = ) If you live in a house that you care for, or helped out with all these type of things, like me, then Im sure you know and appreciate them better than most. And I do all the housework. lol
When I marry I'll be very happy to hear her say, 'hey, i know a lot about cars, how about i come out and we'll check this out together?' Or even, 'i want to learn more about cars.' Whatever the case. It's more fun to do things together.