Honestly.
I am confused at the way people are responding to Subhumanoidal. It truly appears that some people have been selective in what they are reading. He's just saying that if you aren't dating, don't be so hyper-focused on finding someone to date and marry. Enjoy each day that you're given, make the most of it as a single person, don't allow these thoughts on dating and marriage to take all your energy and direct it away from your greater calling, especially the Great Commission. You may believe that everyone, everywhere is called to be married according to God's plan. But if that were true, then everyone everywhere would be married. Because they aren't, it isn't according to God's plan. If something is God's plan, it happens. Moving on.
Take advantage of the fact that you don't have to spend the majority of your time considering the feelings of another person, and use that energy to focus on what God has been asking you to do in service. Relationships inevitably require a lot more of your time. It's natural. But consider how much more you could do in ministry, and how much more effective you could be. Then, while you're working, look up from time to time and see who's working beside you. You may find something in common in the type of ministry that you've both chosen. That's often the start of a lovely relationship. But my point is... get into your work. My mom always told me when I got too focused on myself and my misery (particularly after a failed relationship) that I needed to get my focus off of myself and serve others. It works wonders.
I see so many Christian singles here, especially young ones, bemoaning the fact that they aren't dating or married, and fearing they will forever be in the horrid state of singleness. If I recall, Paul was recommending that if you aren't burning/lusting, and are able to stay focused on your ministry as a single person, then great! Otherwise, seek a partner and serve together. I wonder if the church has been putting too much stress on being married, perhaps? But returning to my point about getting into your work, if you're focused on your ministry, you will feel more fulfilled and less selfish, and those traits will also appeal to believers of the opposite sex. I'm sure people will still feel the need to argue with the points I've put forward. That's fine. I just can't find anything Scripturally that opposes these comments.
Shalom