I do have to say that you have a confidence about you, felice, but not in an arrogant way, plus you're pleasant and well-mannered, so you're on the right track! Also, I give you the benefit of the doubt with your OP. There are lots of ways your statement about thinking about the bride could have been taken that are not sexual.
I also just realized that we seem to have this tendency to want to knock down the people who are confident in themselves (or come across that way) while we tell those who aren't as confident to be moreso. Veeeeery interesting.
Anyways, while kind of random and pointless, thanks for another entertaining thread haha.