I am only looking for girls that are virgins as potential for someone to marry.

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We need proof that you are a virgin.
 

Oncefallen

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You can edit your profile and change your age.
Actually age is the only thing in your profile that only Admin can edit. For this guy, it has been taken care of.
 

Fenner

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This topic was a lot more do with the that even though I want to get porn out of my life. I'm seen as a reject that no girl would want. I really do prefer a virgin, but if I really do fall in with a girl. I'll be a lot more willing to accept it.
You're not a reject. Are you an introverted person? From the outside looking in I think you're sad. I also think you don't have a lot of social experience. I'm definitely not saying these things to be cruel. I really hope before you peruse dating you find someone to talk to, counseling, therapy. Try to start liking yourself.

As as far as the virgin thing goes, it's not wrong to want that, but if you do eventually meet someone you fall in love with, don't count her out because she's not a virgin. We all have something. You have a porn addiction, she may have had a past intimate relationship with someone or like Demi said, maybe she was raped. People have baggage. I did when I got married, my Husband did too. Neither one of us was pure when we got married. It's not something we think about. I don't dwell on his past and he doesn't dwell on mine.

Most of us have stuff and if we say well, this is what I want 100 percent and not budge or just try to give someone a chance, then you don't know what you might miss out on. After all you're not really pure. That's not a jab it's just how it is. It doesn't mean you destined to live bitter and alone forever, but just keep your options open.
 

Oncefallen

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A long time ago, we had a male poster here in Singles who was extremely adamant about marrying ONLY a virgin someday. It didn't matter to him if she had been abused, he wanted ONLY a "true", untouched virgin.

After some pressing, he later admitted that his biggest reason for this was his own insecurity--he was afraid of being compared to ANY of the partners a woman may have had before him--and not measuring up or being as "good" as anyone else, whether in size, skill, or both.

I'm not saying this applies to the OP or anyone else who demands only pure, snow-white virgins as potential...

But it always reminds me of that very honest answer from that former male poster.

and that user also "struggled" with porn


Well, you may be a "technical virgin" having never engaged in intercourse with another person however when you look at the message of scripture which is sexual purity (not virginity) you are no better than a woman who has been sleeping around.
 

Fenner

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Actually age is the only thing in your profile that only Admin can edit. For this guy, it has been taken care of.
Oh okay when he asked me how, I had no idea. Glad it's changed for him
 

Fenner

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I've got upteen million crude things I could say, but for some reason...I don't feel like it. It's like I feel it would be in poor taste for me to say them.

What's wrong with me guys? I'm slipping...

I'm worried, are you feverish?
 

Oncefallen

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A long time ago, we had a male poster here in Singles who was extremely adamant about marrying ONLY a virgin someday. It didn't matter to him if she had been abused, he wanted ONLY a "true", untouched virgin.

After some pressing, he later admitted that his biggest reason for this was his own insecurity--he was afraid of being compared to ANY of the partners a woman may have had before him--and not measuring up or being as "good" as anyone else, whether in size, skill, or both.

I'm not saying this applies to the OP or anyone else who demands only pure, snow-white virgins as potential...

But it always reminds me of that very honest answer from that former male poster.
and that user also "struggled" with porn
Which got me thinking that the similarities are striking.........since Dothackzero would be 28 now.........and lived in the same area as freakingout.........
 

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Which got me thinking that the similarities are striking.........since Dothackzero would be 28 now.........and lived in the same area as freakingout.........
I'm glad I'm not the only one who suspected this.

I was wondering if it was Dothackzero as soon as this second thread started rolling.

I wanted to ask the OP if it was him... but doubted anyone here would remember him.

(The poster I was thinking of in my post was actually someone else, but yes, I was thinking these two threads resonated DHZ's "tone" almost to a T.)