How To Be Un-Saved

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eternally-gratefull

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Scripture very clearly and repeatedly makes 2 points on this issue:

1. God will never turn us away

2. We can turn ourselves away.

Now, you can't just glom onto point 1 and say because of point 1 point 2 is a lie. To do so is to call scripture a lie.

You have to look at both points and find an interpretation that makes both points true... no matter how hard it might be to wrap our heads around that.
The bible says those who turn away never were a part of the church.

God is not going to give his special gift based on his sons blood to people he KNOWS do not really trust him.
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Actually scripture does not say they are 'unconverted'.

Scripture says they become as if they were never saved in the first place.

If in 2010 I decided to accept Christ, I became saved in 2010.

Then if in 2018 I decide to deny Christ, I go back to my unsaved 2009 status.

Again, you have to wrap your head around the juxtaposition of our finite world with infinite realm of heaven.

Kinda like, even tho I accepted Christ in 2010, in 2010 it became as if i was saved from the foundation of the world.

Our time constraints do not apply to God.

And to say there is no way ever to undo it is to redact large portions of the word. Can I sell you an MRV?

The key to understanding scripture is not to toss out the parts that don't agree with you... it's to figure out how something that doesn't agree with you is actually true.
It says they were NEVER saved in the first place.

An antichrist who left the church was never of us


[SUP]19 [/SUP]They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us; but they went out that they might be made manifest, that none of them were of us. [SUP]20 [/SUP]But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and you know all things.[SUP][d][/SUP] [SUP]21 [/SUP]I have not written to you because you do not know the truth, but because you know it, and that no lie is of the truth.

[SUP]22 [/SUP]Who is a liar but he who denies that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist who denies the Father and the Son. [SUP]23 [/SUP]Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father either;


who is an anti Christ? He who Denys Jesus is the Christ.
 
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eternally-gratefull

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That kind of argument is fine as long as you are willing to redact the portions of the Bible that say otherwise.

I really gotta publish the MRV. I'd make a mint on it from those who find the totality of scripture to be bothersome.
The bible does not say otherwise, it does not contradict itself. like your trying to make it do
 

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Scripture very clearly and repeatedly makes 2 points on this issue:

1. God will never turn us away

2. We can turn ourselves away.

Now, you can't just glom onto point 1 and say because of point 1 point 2 is a lie. To do so is to call scripture a lie.

You have to look at both points and find an interpretation that makes both points true... no matter how hard it might be to wrap our heads around that.
Sure I can. Point 2 is a lie. See that wasn't hard.


YOU would have to dispose of VAST chunks of Scripture to believe the lie. Here are a tiny portion of them.

Keep your lives free from the love of money and be CONTENT with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” This one is a bonus because it also eviscerates your economic beliefs.
Now, Is that a Lie? Is He going to leave and forsake us? He says NEVER!

27John 10:4, 14My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me. 28And I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand. 29John 14:28My Father, (John 17:2, 6, 12, 24)who has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand.30John 17:11, 21–24I and My Father are one.”

So we have the picture of God holding us with One Hand and Jesus with the Other clasped around us. What am I gonna do, bite Their fingers to make Them let me jump out?

And don't forget, the whole time, we are SEALED with the Holy Spirit:13 In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation; in whom also, having believed, you were SEALED with the Holy Spirit of promise, 14 who[b] is the guarantee of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory.

I don't know about you, but I'm certain I can't break the Lord's Seal!

Just like I told Chester yesterday, I was in your camp, so I have hope the Holy Spirit will reveal this truth to you and you can be free!
 
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It says they were NEVER saved in the first place.

An antichrist who left the church was never of us


[SUP]19 [/SUP]They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us; but they went out that they might be made manifest, that none of them were of us. [SUP]20 [/SUP]But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and you know all things.[SUP][d][/SUP] [SUP]21 [/SUP]I have not written to you because you do not know the truth, but because you know it, and that no lie is of the truth.

[SUP]22 [/SUP]Who is a liar but he who denies that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist who denies the Father and the Son. [SUP]23 [/SUP]Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father either;


who is an anti Christ? He who Denys Jesus is the Christ.
I think this has become one of the most memorized scriptures now, lol.

Not sure why some refuse to accept what is being said. That bit in red too "But you" addresses believers and makes a clear distinction between the two groups.
 
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According to your doctrine, a wayward Christian is a sign one was not really saved, or was saved and lost their salvation. Either way, it's off to hell with them.
If you mean falling away, yes, it is off to hell with them. Whether they ever really believed to begin with, or stopped believing, doesn't matter. People who do not believe and are 'living like this' (Galatians 5:21) when Jesus returns will not enter into the kingdom. I know you are taught by your church that even unbelievers will enter into the kingdom when Jesus comes back (as long as they used to believe somewhere in the past), but the scriptures are clear that the person living in unbelief is not born again.




God is patient with His children. His discipline is to cause growth - not to punish for sin. We have no sin to pay for. If we did, Jesus would have to come back and die to pay for them - and that's not gonna happen.
That's a good reason why the death in 1 Corinthians 5 is not physical death. Physical death does nothing to make it "so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus"-1 Corinthians 5:5.

Paul is very clear that this person has to die to his flesh so he can be saved. But you are changing the plain words to say he must die to lose reward.



There have been Christians who have refused God's correction - those who sully the name of the One who bought them - that God has removed. As Paul spoke of in 1 Corinthians 11.
We know there are those disobedient Christians who die physically because of sin. But Paul plainly says the matter of the sinner in 1 Corinthians 5 is about salvation (vs.5), not punishment and loss of reward.



But their salvation is secure!

Paul is speaking of the man who is sleeping with his father's wife and would not stop. Paul says to turn him over for the destruction of his flesh, knowing that his soul is saved.
We know he's not already saved (used to be, or not, doesn't matter) because Paul he has to die to the flesh "so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus"-1 Corinthians 5:5. You can't be living in the flesh when Jesus comes back and be saved. Won't happen. And it doesn't matter if you used to not live in the flesh, but now do because you no longer believe. Either way, you aren't going to be saved when Jesus comes back.



You sin every day, Ralph.
What I do not do is live in the deeds of the flesh. Do you? Apparently you do since you refuse to make the distinction between the unsaved sinning person and the saved sinning person. The unsaved person lives in the flesh. The saved person lives for God and is no longer in bondage to the flesh. Which one are you? I know you will not answer the question because even though you don't make the distinction you can't bring yourself to say you still live in sin.




And as far as seeking His forgiveness - forgiveness for what?
Ask John:

"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."-1 John 1:9


It's like you don't even read the Bible.




How many sins didn't the blood cover, Ralph?
The sin of willful rejection of Christ.

There is no sacrifice given for that offense. Doesn't matter if you were ever saved, or not. Christ's blood does not cover the sin of choosing to live in a rejection of his blood.




If we have a single sin to pay for, we'd better hope Jesus comes back to be crucified again.
Don't have the sin of living in a rejection of Christ's blood and you have nothing to worry about. Go back to your old life in unbelief, that is where Christ's blood will not cover you.



You are not obeying God's commandments because the Bible says no one can fully obey them.
That's where the blood of Christ comes in. Is this really that hard for you to understand?

It's only when I depart from the blood in a willful return to the world in unbelief that I am condemned to the lake of fire. As long as I don't do that I am living in obedience to the commands of God. Don't forget that part of his commands are to seek forgiveness when you sin. You are being obedient when you seek the forgiveness of God for the time you do not keep a command of God. Obedience is not sinless perfection. It's simply living for God and seeking his forgiveness and cleansing when you fail. The only thing that can condemn you as being disobedient is a return to unbelief. In which case NONE of your sin is covered.



And if you somehow could obey all of His commandments, you wouldn't need Christ.
You did not realize part of obeying his commands is to seek forgiveness when you fail.

The only sin he can't cover is not believing in the blood that covers your sin.



I have always said we should live as holy a life as we can, as a witness to men.
Yeah, forget about living holy FOR GOD.
Good grief, listen to yourself, man.



But good works don't prove one is saved, because the lost can do the same good works.
You seem to not even realize you directly contradict plain scriptures when you and others say this. I'm amazed at how you people can claim something directly contradictory to what the Bible plainly says. It's an interesting phenomenon. But that is how spiritual blindness is.



Many Christians won't die for their enemies either.
And if they stay that way they will not be saved when Jesus comes back.
Dying to self is the sign of the believer, not the unbeliever.



You know exactly what I mean by good works. Feeding the hungry, visiting the sick, clothing the naked, etc.
Jesus said the fruit of the righteous LASTS. It's not a fly-by-night, buck in the Salvation Army kettle, once a year thing. It's a matter of lifestyle. A change of nature.

And then there's the matter of what you brought up before-the things unbelievers simply CAN'T do. But you just blew that off.



An unbeliever can persevere in suffering. Millions of people from false religions call it "righteous" as well.
Nope. False religion is noted for his murderous attitude toward it's enemies.



So, it finally boils down to "suffering" with you, huh? Your inner martyr is showing itself again. Your insatiable need to "prove" yourself to God and others. Oh, the praise you must drink up for being so "humble" and so "holy", as you stand bravely before the onslaught of those who think you are simply full of yourself.

One is a Christian if they believe in Jesus for salvation - whether they suffer a little, a lot, or not at all.

Period.
Like I say, it's like you don't even read the Bible:


"They encouraged them to continue in the faith, reminding them that we must suffer many hardships to enter the Kingdom of God."-Acts 14:22



"For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? But if when you do what is right and suffer for it you patiently endure it, this finds favor with God.

21For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps"-1 Peter 2:20-21


If YOU are not suffering for Christ you will not enter the kingdom of God. This means doing right even when it costs you. A simple example would be choosing to be patient with someone in traffic, or in the grocery line even doing that (doing right) will cause you to be late for an appointment or late for work. See how that works? Probably not, but it's out there for those who have ears to hear.
 

Katy-follower

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Romans 8:28-30: "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified"

Guarantee of completion, that He who has begun a good work in us will complete it (Philippians 1:6)

I also like that bit "we know" too (we have assurance) :)
 
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eternally-gratefull

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I think this has become one of the most memorized scriptures now, lol.

Not sure why some refuse to accept what is being said. That bit in red too "But you" addresses believers and makes a clear distinction between the two groups.

Amen sis, Why this continues to even be a question just boggles my mind.
 

RickyZ

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And why people think they can pick and chose which scriptures to believe and which to ignore boggles my mind.

But it's going to make me rich!
 

MichaelOwen

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And why people think they can pick and chose which scriptures to believe and which to ignore boggles my mind.

But it's going to make me rich!

A lot of people do pick and choose which scriptures to adhere to and which ones to ignore.....but if you're not Spiritually discerned....you can get confused really quick because it seems a lot of scriptures contradict themselves, but NOT if you are endwelled with the Holy Spirit. If you're saved, you can't be unsaved, and if you're not saved, then you cannot understand what the scriptures are saying.

"But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned." 1 Corinthians 2:14
 
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eternally-gratefull

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And why people think they can pick and chose which scriptures to believe and which to ignore boggles my mind.

But it's going to make me rich!
I hope it does. And I ghope you find joy in whatever you get.

Me. I am already ribch

I have been blessed with EVERY spiritual blessing in Christ jesus
I have been given the right to become his child based on my faith
I have been redeemed by his blood
I have been justified freely by his sacrifice
I have been perfected forever. And am in the process of being sanctified
I have been given eternal life
I have been assured my father will never leave me, and if I stray, he will leave the flock to come get me, ane when he comes, i will follow
I have been given the pledge of the spirit as a guarantee
I have been made alive in Christ
I have been baptised into his body, his church and the cross
My savior is in heaven now making a mansion where I will live for eternity
I have the hope that surpasses all understanding
I have been given rest, a rest which can nto come from anyone but God
I have been told I will never die, I will live forever, and given Gods assurance, he will raise me from the dead.
I have had everything that is against me, contrary to me, and would condem me nailed to the cross
I have come to a point where even the greatest suffering is abe to become just a momentary light affliction
I have been united with the father the son and the spirit
I have been given a father who is not a spirit of fear. But an Abba Father
I have been told God has many gifts awating for me in heaven.
I have been told I will have reward in heaven
I have been given so much, nothign on this earth even compairs and I have only begum to list the riches I have and will continue to have in christ


You want to be rich, Go ahead and try to earn your riches. Me, I have everything a person needs, and been blessed beyond comprehension. And you know what is even better? God said NO ONE, and he means NO ONE can take that away from me.
 
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joefizz

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Actually scripture does not say they are 'unconverted'.

Scripture says they become as if they were never saved in the first place.

If in 2010 I decided to accept Christ, I became saved in 2010.

Then if in 2018 I decide to deny Christ, I go back to my unsaved 2009 status.

Again, you have to wrap your head around the juxtaposition of our finite world with infinite realm of heaven.

Kinda like, even tho I accepted Christ in 2010, in 2010 it became as if i was saved from the foundation of the world.

Our time constraints do not apply to God.

And to say there is no way ever to undo it is to redact large portions of the word. Can I sell you an MRV?

The key to understanding scripture is not to toss out the parts that don't agree with you... it's to figure out how something that doesn't agree with you is actually true.
No wonder atheists think we're loons,stuff like this^^^^^^^^ is definitely why unbelievers are convinced of such.
 
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joefizz

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Hmm... Tell me, how much say did you have in in your own natural birth? Could YOU decide that you were no longer the son of your parents?

So one minute your a child of God, born again, a NEW creation, and the next YOU decide you are no longer a Child of God?

12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name: 13 who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
Yes so fascinating how an old creation becomes a new creation and then can become an old creation all by itself.
 
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joefizz

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Yes so fascinating how an old creation becomes a new creation and then can become an old creation all by itself.
oooo I know!
you can go back in a time machine to become your old self oh wait that self wouldn't be "actually" you, blast even modern stuff can't make an old creation that becomes new an old creation again,now didn't Jesus say something on this...
not placing the old with the new or the new with the old like garments that it can tear a garment worse,any of this ringing a bell?
 

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No wonder atheists think we're loons,stuff like this^^^^^^^^ is definitely why unbelievers are convinced of such.
j...,

Never mind following the loons...follow The Bible, that is what G-d charges us with.
 
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Ralph-

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[SUP]19 [/SUP]They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us; but they went out that they might be made manifest, that none of them were of us. [SUP]20 [/SUP]But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and you know all things.[SUP][d][/SUP] [SUP]21 [/SUP]I have not written to you because you do not know the truth, but because you know it, and that no lie is of the truth.

[SUP]22 [/SUP]Who is a liar but he who denies that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist who denies the Father and the Son. [SUP]23 [/SUP]Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father either;
I think this has become one of the most memorized scriptures now, lol.

Not sure why some refuse to accept what is being said. That bit in red too "But you" addresses believers and makes a clear distinction between the two groups.
Keep reading, Katy. You stopped short of the very next verse that warns these believers against also not continuing in the truth:


"24As for you, let that abide in you which you heard from the beginning. If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, you also will abide in the Son and in the Father."-1 John 2:24


You say yourself that he is writing to true believers who know the truth. And he tells these true believers to continue (abide) in what they heard, in contrast to those who did not (vs.19). And that if they do that they will continue (abide) in the Son and the Father. Yet it is argued that John is saying it isn't even possible for these true believers to not continue in the truth. That belief is not consistent with his warning to not also fall away like those in vs. 19 did.

So don't leave out vs. 24 to try to make the preceding verses mean only fake believers don't continue in what they heard. John says if these true believers don't deny Christ they will continue in the Son and the Father, unlike those who did deny Christ and do not abide in Christ as a result.
 
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oooo I know!
you can go back in a time machine to become your old self oh wait that self wouldn't be "actually" you, blast even modern stuff can't make an old creation that becomes new an old creation again,now didn't Jesus say something on this...
not placing the old with the new or the new with the old like garments that it can tear a garment worse,any of this ringing a bell?
Oh, I know, I know!

Simply withdraw the Holy Spirit out of a person.
That will cause them to not be a new creation anymore.

Doesn't seem so tough to me.
 
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Ralph-

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Romans 8:28-30: "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified"

Guarantee of completion, that He who has begun a good work in us will complete it (Philippians 1:6)

I also like that bit "we know" too (we have assurance) :)
Keep believing and what God predestines the believer to become will in fact be completed. You can take that to the bank. The promises are for those who believe, not for those who used to believe.
 
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Ralph-

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Little antichrists... children of the devil.
So don't be an anti-christ........don't deny Christ, keep believing:


"the one who does not believe God has made Him a liar, because he has not believed in the testimony that God has given concerning His Son."-1 John 5:10


"Who is the liar but the one who denies that Jesus is the Christ? This is the antichrist, the one who denies the Father and the Son."-1 John 2:22

"If we deny Him, He also will deny us;"-2 Timothy 2:12


So don't be an anti-christ, like those who are not in the truth in 1 John 2:19. Instead, continue in the truth you have because if you do you will continue in the Son and the Father.


"they went out, so that it would be shown that they all are not of us."-1 John 2:19

"24As for you, let that abide in you which you heard from the beginning. If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, you also will abide in the Son and in the Father."-1 John 2:24