"But... I Have a KEURIG!!! That's a Sure Reason to Pick Me!" Name 3 Reasons Why YOU Are the Ultimate "Pick Me!" Guy or Girl!!

[seoulsearch]

And most single guys are usually very surprised by the information I have posted about single women.
Where YOU might be a bit older than the other 20-somethings out there actively looking for a spouse....there is a couple of groups and circles new to this whole world of "YUPPY DATING" that dont know anything about how to actually go on dates, have and form relationships....all the stuff that you or I might take for granted.

Sure, a LOT of the posts I make are on the subject of manipulation by women....because most single guys are unsuspecting of such behavior most of the time. They are innocent of such notions. (They just want the wife and kids)

However, if YOU (or other young ladies) would like to ever date one of the new crop of guys....who are quickly learning from the things I have posted or by real world experience....then perhaps exhibited behavior that reassures guys that you are not like one of the manipulative women I post about might get them a date....or three.

Only 30% of College age women (HS seniors) are actually interested in having children or husbands......
A 50% reduction in 20 years.

I wanna believe in those innocent puppy eyes.....like they can do no wrong.

Yes, you certainly seem to be on a rampage of, "I AM THE CHOSEN ONE! i WILL BE THE ONE WHO WILL TEACH ALL THOSE POOR, HELPLESS, GULLIBLE YOUNG MEN JUST HOW EVIL WOMEN ARE!"

Many of your copy and pasted "facts that surely apply to all women" come across as an obsessed madman with a predetermined agenda against women in general -- except of course, your own wife.

Henceforth, why my preference would be that you would start your own threads about these topics instead of hijacking mine, but you insist on interjecting your ranting messages into Single's topics.

But I know you're determined and there's certainly no license against it, so as I said, Keep Ranting and Carry On.

There are many other marrieds who come here that I see as friends and I very much look forward to their posts, but the difference is that they are kind, compassionate, encouraging, and share their own personal stories.

Praise God for the other marrieds like that or I'd be in danger of thinking all married people are like the way you come across in your posts.

 

[seoulsearch]

Nope...
I'm here to tell you what you need to hear....which often is opposite of what you want to hear. I'm laughing at no one. Unless they deserve it for laughing at others.

Nope....you MISSED it....
I seek to educate young MEN not singles as an entire collective. Huge difference.

Only an idiot would believe everyone is a carbon copy....sure "winds" of generalities and similar attitudes happen in areas....but that hardly makes people clones.

And nationwide in the USA young women are largely uninterested in having children and families....they are spending their baby making years chasing careers that do not satisfy instead of procreation which usually does create a lifetime of unique, enriching relationships. Guys have not changed in their goals in the past 20 years....they are just resigning to do it without women. (No kids though)

Time and age catch up to everyone....even myself which has been a very mobile and unpredictable target. But catch me it has....Zero regrets....currently I have an extremely rich life. I want the same for others. Not an empty life at retirement with plaques on the wall of "employee of the year" and pictures of dead cats on the tables and mantles.

Intonations....
They are everything you have missed in text....

Yes.

This is what you've been saying in Singles for all the years you've been here.

You have the knowledge we all need to hear -- and always insist that it's just matter of us not wanting to hear it.

And no, I didn't miss your point -- I clearly outlined this in my last post.

You are the chosen one, the expert, the Moses here to lead young men willing to listen to you into The Promised Land -- all by teaching them just how vile and evil women are.

If I've learned one thing in life, it's impossible to deter someone who feels they have an important calling, especially if they think it's directly from God, so you keep doing what you feel you need to do.

Certainly, as you always show, no one here can stop you.

 

[Churchgoer]

Great points!

And for singles who are getting older, finding a partner with perfect health is nearly impossible anyway -- henceforth, the reason why so many older singles are looking for younger, healthier potential spouses to take care of them.

I don't know what the world would look like if we were all able to look past just looks and health and truly serve each other in love, regardless of bad health, but I'm always inspired by spouses who are finding a way to do so.

Not just health, but health is an important part, which is related to personal habits, to a certain degree.

In America, we all know there are many unhealthy food, habits, active vs couch 🛋 etc.

Finance another factor, if one can't make ends meet, can't hold on to a job, or spend every penny on fast food.... we are talking about middle aged people, would u want that to be your project to grow spiritually? Especially the person not putting God s offering first like Able.

 

[Churchgoer]

However, there are some Christian singles out there that can pass some test run, don't lose hope, go get them, or the least, become one of them.

Commit to local church.
Give offering to God first.
Financially independent.
Health independent.
Confident being single.
Friendly in social circles....

Enjoy the journey!!!

 

[JohnDB]

Yes, you certainly seem to be on a rampage of, "I AM THE CHOSEN ONE! i WILL BE THE ONE WHO WILL TEACH ALL THOSE POOR, HELPLESS, GULLIBLE YOUNG MEN JUST HOW EVIL WOMEN ARE!"

Many of your copy and pasted "facts that surely apply to all women" come across as an obsessed madman with a predetermined agenda against women in general -- except of course, your own wife.

Henceforth, why my preference would be that you would start your own threads about these topics instead of hijacking mine, but you insist on interjecting your ranting messages into Single's topics.

But I know you're determined and there's certainly no license against it, so as I said, Keep Ranting and Carry On.

There are many other marrieds who come here that I see as friends and I very much look forward to their posts, but the difference is that they are kind, compassionate, encouraging, and share their own personal stories.

Praise God for the other marrieds like that or I'd be in danger of thinking all married people are like the way you come across in your posts.

You certainly have a unique belief in yourself and me that is not shared by all....I promise.

The "DB" stands for "duh, Baptist".....as in a "voice in the wilderness"...carried along by the wind. Coming from nowhere and going nowhere.....just floating along...just another opinion among many....it's the internet....that happens here.
BUT YET....
Why does it frustrate you so much?
Why is it so angering to you?
Why does it seem so narcissistic to you?
Especially when it's just a copy/paste from Twitter?

How does that happen?
Are you angry someone put something wrong on the internet?

What is going on between those ears of yours that makes all this anger rise up in you?

 

[Godsgirl1983]

You certainly have a unique belief in yourself and me that is not shared by all....I promise.

The "DB" stands for "duh, Baptist".....as in a "voice in the wilderness"...carried along by the wind. Coming from nowhere and going nowhere.....just floating along...just another opinion among many....it's the internet....that happens here.
BUT YET....
Why does it frustrate you so much?
Why is it so angering to you?
Why does it seem so narcissistic to you?
Especially when it's just a copy/paste from Twitter?

How does that happen?
Are you angry someone put something wrong on the internet?

What is going on between those ears of yours that makes all this anger rise up in you?

DUDE!
What's with the rage baiting here?
Chill out.

 

[JohnDB]

DUDE!
What's with the rage baiting here?
Chill out.

You read what she wrote to me?
She literally asked, begged and pleaded for it.

 

[Godsgirl1983]

But I also realize that there are plenty of people out there who just wish I would stop posting altogether,

Um NO! Don't do that!!!!
Where will my entertainment and inspirations come from then?

 

[Godsgirl1983]

You read what she wrote to me?

Actually, no, not all of it, at least not yet. (Because right now I just don't have the time, trying so hard not to get sucked into something here while I should be off taking care of business)

She literally asked, begged and pleaded for it.

Mmmm I know @seoulsearch search well enough (I think) to know that's not true.

HOWEVER, I also see you do this time and time again in threads.
You see, you write so often about how horrible women today are, and I'm disagreeing, because there truly are some bad apples out there, but the same can be said about me.
But here's the thing John:
The good ones aren't going to be posting themselves all over social media, they're not out trying to climb the corporate ladder. They are the ones tuck away, if it seems like they are hiding, well maybe it's because they are.
Maybe they are just busy pursuing the life and calling God has placed before them, therefor, you're not going to see them posting about their lives all over the place. They are not drawing attention to themselves being mean and nasty to everyone because they are not mean and nasty, but are quietly going about doing what they are called to do.

Ugh... getting sucked in here.
I could go on with this topic and these thoughts, but I really don't have the time right now.

 

[seoulsearch]

You certainly have a unique belief in yourself and me that is not shared by all....I promise.

The "DB" stands for "duh, Baptist".....as in a "voice in the wilderness"...carried along by the wind. Coming from nowhere and going nowhere.....just floating along...just another opinion among many....it's the internet....that happens here.
BUT YET....
Why does it frustrate you so much?
Why is it so angering to you?
Why does it seem so narcissistic to you?
Especially when it's just a copy/paste from Twitter?

How does that happen?
Are you angry someone put something wrong on the internet?

What is going on between those ears of yours that makes all this anger rise up in you?

What bothers me is that someone with so much agenda and propaganda to spread isn't starting his own threads about it instead of constantly trying to force himself into other's threads.

It's just common forum courtesy.

You constantly talk about people being too lazy to put in the real work -- why not put in the real work of starting your own threads and topics instead of trying to take over the ones here?

I was actually thinking of starting a thread for you: "JOHN DUH BAPTIST'S CALL IN THE WILDNERNESS TO ALL YOUNG MEN! COME RIGHT IN AND FIND OUT HOW TO AVOID ALL THE PITFALLS OF DATING -- BY LEARNING JUST HOW EVIL WOMEN REALLY ARE!"

Why complain about everyone else's laziness and then refuse to build your own platform, so you don't have to keep shoving people out of the way?

But the one thing stopping me is that the administration here has been very kind to me over the years, and I won't abuse the trust they've graciously given.

 

[JohnDB]

Actually, no, not all of it, at least not yet. (Because right now I just don't have the time, trying so hard not to get sucked into something here while I should be off taking care of business)

Mmmm I know @seoulsearch search well enough (I think) to know that's not true.

HOWEVER, I also see you do this time and time again in threads.
You see, you write so often about how horrible women today are, and I'm disagreeing, because there truly are some bad apples out there, but the same can be said about me.
But here's the thing John:
The good ones aren't going to be posting themselves all over social media, they're not out trying to climb the corporate ladder. They are the ones tuck away, if it seems like they are hiding, well maybe it's because they are.
Maybe they are just busy pursuing the life and calling God has placed before them, therefor, you're not going to see them posting about their lives all over the place. They are not drawing attention to themselves being mean and nasty to everyone because they are not mean and nasty, but are quietly going about doing what they are called to do.

Ugh... getting sucked in here.
I could go on with this topic and these thoughts, but I really don't have the time right now.

Contrary to popular opinion....
We ARE facing a crisis of Biblical proportion inside the next 5 years. (Unlike the phoney climate crisis).

And it's one stemming from a lack of relationships.

We already are experiencing the beginnings of the problem. It's hit EVERY city and town in the Westernized modern world. And it's growing worse...not better.

 

[seoulsearch]

DUDE!
What's with the rage baiting here?
Chill out.

You read what she wrote to me?
She literally asked, begged and pleaded for it.

Rage Baiting -- no.

A chance to showcase exactly the kind of answer I knew you would give -- yes, exactly -- so thank you for that.

The thing is, I'm not actually answering John because after years of reading his posts, I know what he's going to answer. I get to a point where I'm speaking to the audience, but using a specific person's posts -- that they keep giving -- in order to do it.

Long-time posters are most likely familiar with both our posts, and will come to their own conclusions accordingly.

I'm not worried about what people think of me -- people have either already made up their minds, or are in the process -- and that's totally their right to do so.

Rather, I find it interesting to bring out the process of how the other person thinks along the way. I've sat here in mostly silence watching the extremity and frequency of your (John's) posts against women steadily increase. And so, I just decided to answer in one of my own threads, that you've so kindly showed up in, as could also be predicted.

Yes, John, I know exactly what I said to you.

But more importantly, I also knew exactly what it would bring out.

Thank you for overwhelmingly confirming that.

 

[seoulsearch]

Contrary to popular opinion....
We ARE facing a crisis of Biblical proportion inside the next 5 years. (Unlike the phoney climate crisis).

And it's one stemming from a lack of relationships.

We already are experiencing the beginnings of the problem. It's hit EVERY city and town in the Westernized modern world. And it's growing worse...not better.

And constantly coming into people's threads and ranting about it in this matter helps people how?

Again -- start your own threads about the subject if it means that much to you.

But I suppose the entire point is to spread these things all around instead of trying to keep them within a more centralized discussion.

Again, I would start a thread of your own for you about this subject, too, but I won't out of gratitude for the CC administration.

 

[Godsgirl1983]

Contrary to popular opinion....
We ARE facing a crisis of Biblical proportion inside the next 5 years. (Unlike the phoney climate crisis).

And it's one stemming from a lack of relationships.

We already are experiencing the beginnings of the problem. It's hit EVERY city and town in the Westernized modern world. And it's growing worse...not better.

So, like Seolsearch said:

I would start a thread of your own about this subject,

John, when you do that, then maybe I'll reply to the above quote...
(because I do want to reply, just don't want to derail anymore here.)

 

[seoulsearch]

Actually, no, not all of it, at least not yet. (Because right now I just don't have the time, trying so hard not to get sucked into something here while I should be off taking care of business)

Mmmm I know @seoulsearch search well enough (I think) to know that's not true.

HOWEVER, I also see you do this time and time again in threads.
You see, you write so often about how horrible women today are, and I'm disagreeing, because there truly are some bad apples out there, but the same can be said about me.
But here's the thing John:
The good ones aren't going to be posting themselves all over social media, they're not out trying to climb the corporate ladder. They are the ones tuck away, if it seems like they are hiding, well maybe it's because they are.
Maybe they are just busy pursuing the life and calling God has placed before them, therefor, you're not going to see them posting about their lives all over the place. They are not drawing attention to themselves being mean and nasty to everyone because they are not mean and nasty, but are quietly going about doing what they are called to do.

Ugh... getting sucked in here.
I could go on with this topic and these thoughts, but I really don't have the time right now.

Thank you for this, @Godsgirl1983.

One of the reasons I haven't said anything sooner is because I was starting to think that maybe it was just us single women who were noticing this.

I stayed silent because I knew if I said anything, John would just say it was because we are pathetic single women and that obviously, something was wrong with us or we'd all have husband (or would be out actively chasing one.)

I'm actually relieved to know that a married woman has noticed these things, too.

I have my own opinions about the things that John posts -- we all do. But as human beings, we're all going to have our own opinions.

All I'm trying to say is, it's my wish that John not bring them to my threads -- he needs to create spaces for these topics of his own. Don't preach to others about how lazy everyone else is and then not even put in the effort to write your own threads.

I know he'll keep right on going -- which is certainly his prerogative -- but all I'm asking is that he would start building his own pulpits to preach from, instead of using my threads as his own platform.

And if he does this with other's threads, it's up to them to express their opinions about the matter if they wish.

As for mine, I'd prefer to keep all the "Women Are Evil" and "The World Is Ending Because People Aren't Marrying and Reproducing Like Rabbits" propaganda out of them.

And although I know he can do what he wants and will probably continue to do so, I feel I have a right to speak out against it and ask him to take it somewhere else when it happens in my own threads.

He doesn't have to and I know he'll probably just ignore everything I've said, but I did not want the audience in any way, shape, or form to think that I was somehow approving of him coming in here and pushing all of his agendas.

As the author of the thread, I feel I have the right to speak against something I don't want here -- or in any of my threads.

 

[seoulsearch]

You constantly talk about people being too lazy to put in the real work -- why not put in the real work of starting your own threads and topics instead of trying to take over the ones here?

I was actually thinking of starting a thread for you: "JOHN DUH BAPTIST'S CALL IN THE WILDNERNESS TO ALL YOUNG MEN! COME RIGHT IN AND FIND OUT HOW TO AVOID ALL THE PITFALLS OF DATING -- BY LEARNING JUST HOW EVIL WOMEN REALLY ARE!"

Why complain about everyone else's laziness and then refuse to build your own platform, so you don't have to keep shoving people out of the way?

But the one thing stopping me is that the administration here has been very kind to me over the years, and I won't abuse the trust they've graciously given.

Again, I would start a thread of your own for you about this subject, too, but I won't out of gratitude for the CC administration.

If I ever do get wind that I would be allowed to do such a thing (start writing starter threads for those who constantly insist on preaching their messages in my threads,) you better believe I will -- in a heartbeat.

I would of course, tone it down a bit -- but my response to trolls has always been to write more threads. And I have to start writing threads FOR them, I'd be more than happy to do so.

Why they can't put all that huff and puff energy into starting their own discussions, I'll never know. It's not like it's because they're shy!!!

However, I highly respect this site and the people who run it, so I don't believe in running to them about any of my petty little concerns unless it's absolutely necessary.

But if something ever changed or reached an absolute tipping point to where it was somehow damaging to others in my threads...

I will not hesitate to ask.

And yes, I'm well aware that they are reading along anyway, which is something I count on.

 

[seoulsearch]

Nope....you MISSED it....
I seek to educate young MEN not singles as an entire collective. Huge difference.

Only an idiot would believe everyone is a carbon copy....sure "winds" of generalities and similar attitudes happen in areas....but that hardly makes people clones.

And nationwide in the USA young women are largely uninterested in having children and families....they are spending their baby making years chasing careers that do not satisfy instead of procreation which usually does create a lifetime of unique, enriching relationships. Guys have not changed in their goals in the past 20 years....they are just resigning to do it without women. (No kids though)

Time and age catch up to everyone....even myself which has been a very mobile and unpredictable target. But catch me it has....Zero regrets....currently I have an extremely rich life. I want the same for others. Not an empty life at retirement with plaques on the wall of "employee of the year" and pictures of dead cats on the tables and mantles.

Intonations....
They are everything you have missed in text....

BUT YET....
Why does it frustrate you so much?
Why is it so angering to you?
Why does it seem so narcissistic to you?
Especially when it's just a copy/paste from Twitter?

How does that happen?
Are you angry someone put something wrong on the internet?

What is going on between those ears of yours that makes all this anger rise up in you?

For someone who often likes to tell people they've completely missed the point, you ran past the real, and very simple, point I've been trying to make in all of this a long time ago, and are now about 3 orchards away.

All I am saying is:

Take. It. Elsewhere.

If I could, I would gladly start a place for you.

But seeing as I don't believe I can, I'm just asking you to please take all your messaging somewhere else other than my threads.

I can't speak for other people in their threads, but I can speak up about it when you show up in mine.

 

[seoulsearch]

So, like Seolsearch said:
John, when you do that, then maybe I'll reply to the above quote...

You see, John?

You even have your first customer for all the topics you're dying to start.

I know you've written threads before.

Why not try doing it again?

We'll be watching for them.

I know I sure will!

I probably wouldn't say anything in them -- I'd likely wait for you to come over to my side of the fence instead -- but I sure would read along.

 

[Tall_Timbers]

but, you couldn't you just sip your drink out of a cup or glass like a normal person?

I prefer to sip my drink out of a straw like a normal person.

 

[Lanolin]

I prefer to sip my drink out of a straw like a normal person.

Um ok man with chainsaw.
You not getting your two feet near my kauri tree lol.