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Personally, while I have no problem with the predestination of the elect, I do not believe that Christ's atonement was limited in any way. Just as sin was introduced into the entire world through one man (Adam), sin was also overcome by one man (Christ). To say that Christ died for a select few is to to place limitations / minimize the importance of what Christ did for humanity.
However, by no means what so ever am I a Universalist. Just because Christ died so that all mankind could be saved does not mean that all mankind will be saved. Taking this perspective into consideration, it's also a given that I do not believe in 'Irresistable Grace' as defined by Calvinism either. I do believe that grace is indeed irresistable however, I believe it is irresistable to them inwhich grace has been bestowed thus conforming those who have received such grace into the very nature of of that grace.