I understand lack of trust and being angry with the opposite sex. However, being angry at the entire gender is self serving. You're angry, bitter, and hurt by the core women in your life. Which is understandable. Your mom is supposed to take care of you, love you, and when you're hurt, make things better. They're not human in their children's eyes, they're not allowed to sin. In your case, your mother MAJORLY messed up, and I'm sure her stealing from you isn't her only sin against you.
As for your aunt, I'm assuming it's your mother's sister. I assume it's her sister because they seem similar. Now, anger is a SECONDARY emotion, meaning that hurt or pain came first. It sounds like your aunt is acting out of pain, frustration, and depression. This is my general profile, but I believe it has credibility.
As for you, get out of your house. You're miserable there. If you can't get out of your house, then grow up and above what's going on. See, we continue with behaviors because it does something for us. You like your emotional state (your anger and bitterness) to some degree. It gives you power and you have some sort of justification for it. I believe you're afraid, which is why you don't want to trust women. I also think you don't want to seek out healthier people (men in particular) because you want to stay the same. However, you posted this thread, so perhaps you want to change to some degree. You've got a lot of work to do. Starting now is so much better than starting tomorrow.