Isn't repping a person saying it to their face... virtually speaking?
I'm not one of those people who scold rep. It's always a good-thing rep.
I agree, Lynn.
I only use the rep system for encouragement. Sometimes I want to rep but also make a suggestion, and this is when I stop and think.
How would I word it if I were speaking to the person? In that case, I'll PM them instead.
My whole point was that the rep system is often used to say something anonymously that someone might not otherwise say in person.
I sign my name (and this is just my own thing, not speaking for anyone else) as a personal stance against all the times the rep system is used abusively (and I encourage anyone receiving rep with an inappropriate or critical remark to report it immediately, because the mods will know who it was and act accordingly, if necessary.)
Unfortunately, some people use the rep system as a way to slam someone and think they can get away with it, and signing my name is my own way to keep myself in check and express my belief that the rep system should not be abused.
Back when I first joined CC, rep was very rare and the only people you saw people with a high rep number had been here forever and accumulated it through their number of posts and the number of years they had been here. Triple-digit rep points were unheard of.
I have often wondered what would happen if the system was based on how much positive rep we gave others instead of being concerned about what others thought of us. (Not to encourage insincerity or to say that those giving rep now are insincere, but the rep system now feels kind of like a high-scoring video game.)