Why won't guys make a move?

I believe the answer is found in Genesis 2:24. You added in the bracketed words as a caveat. I do believe all people should be married, however that doesn't mean that all will. And that's their decision. Such is the nature of our post-modern society.

You believe ALL people should be married? How do you justify that against 1 Corinthians chapter 7?

Also you place all the blame on the people who don't get married, because they chose not to? There are TONS of people I know who would marry if they could, but have not yet found anybody who was not a turd. Are you saying they should marry the wrong person rather than being single?

You believe ALL people should be married? How do you justify that against 1 Corinthians chapter 7?

Also you place all the blame on the people who don't get married, because they chose not to? There are TONS of people I know who would marry if they could, but have not yet found anybody who was not a turd. Are you saying they should marry the wrong person rather than being single?

Well that's a nice misinterpretation of the tone of the message... anyway. Marriage isn't a Biblical requirement. But it is a Biblical recommendation. I'm not married so far be it from me to tell people whether they should or shouldn't be married. You make it sound like I am giving my opinion (my thoughts are what I believe scripture says, so take that for what it's worth). I suggest you read the whole of the argument before choosing one specific section of what I wrote. People can many who they want or if they want. There's no condemnation for those who choose not to get married. But my own thoughts on the matter are that they should prepare accordingly so that they are in the optimal position to be a godly spouse should such events occur.

Um... that directly contradicts what you said before. You believe all people should be married, but it's not a biblical requirement and you're not married and you don't think you should be telling people they should be married.

Now I'm confused.

I believe the answer is found in Genesis 2:24.

Not sure how you reached the conclusion about the biblical recommendation for marriage as it seems that, based on the opinion of Paul, there is a biblical bias against marriage. You are correct though in stating about preparing accordingly if one is inclined towards and desires to one day be married.

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

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You seem to be in error.

Maybe I am wrong but you seem to look at choosing marriage as superior to choosing to not marry.


The bible never says such a thing.


One is not greater than the other, we are not Adam and Eve and have no need to populate the earth.

If you believe God wants all to marry it is your own opinion not found in scripture.


Marriage is a wonderful blessing, it really is.

Being chaste for our Father is also an equally wondeful blessing.



Matthew 19:12

12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
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1 cor 7
7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.

8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.

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Nothing out of context, no added opinions.

(unless of course I misunderstand your point that marriage is in any way better in Gods eyes than remaining chaste for Him in this day and age)

I don't really have time to address all of what you said as I am about to head out the door. I will choose to focus on the last point you made, regarding the nature of both marriage and singleness. As I've stated, I believe a Biblical model is given to us in Genesis. If people want to ignore that, more power to you. Neither is "wrong", but marriage is "God honoring". Can't really state any more than that. If anyone wishes to address this point with me, that may do so personally.

I don't really have time to address all of what you said as I am about to head out the door. I will choose to focus on the last point you made, regarding the nature of both marriage and singleness. As I've stated, I believe a Biblical model is given to us in Genesis. If people want to ignore that, more power to you. Neither is "wrong", but marriage is "God honoring". Can't really state any more than that. If anyone wishes to address this point with me, that may do so personally.

Hello Internet!

I am a young girl of 20. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years a while back and haven't missed him one bit. That being said, I long to talk with someone and have a bit of a deep relationship. I want to have a person to be able to share anything with. Why do I do I have so many guy friends, but not one has asked me out? I have been told that a few of them have crushes on me, but nothing happens. I know I am a bit impatient. Any advise? Answers?

Well... this got ugly even without my help.

I think Jesus said that it is based upon the individual in Matthew 19. ...Not everyone will be married and not everyone can live a single life...If your able to stay single then it's good if not then it is good to marry....That lines up with what Paul is saying in 1 Corinthians 7 as well... That's just my view on that scripture anyhow.

10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.

12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

Marriage is not somehow more important than singleness. However there are areas of completeness and spiritual completeness that one can only reach when one is in union with someone of the opposite sex. It's an option which is available to all, but only some choose that path. That doesn't make their decision wrong or attempt to raise those up on a pedestal who have chosen to be wed. Marriage is both a blessing and a curse in many respects. It provides some of the greatest blessings but it also requires the greatest sacrifice. In order to experience the fullness of what God has for you, you can choose to tie yourself to someone who shares the same spiritual heart. While the Biblical requirement doesn't say ALL should be married (those in ministry or positions of responsibility may wish to consider their options in this regard), it is a RECOMMENDATION for those who burn with lust and all who would seek to enter into a different level of spiritual maturity, as it were. For me personally, identifying my weaknesses before attempting to get involved with someone of the opposite sex seems like a wise choice. It's laying the groundwork as it were (not saying that that automatically leads to marriage). It's called being prepared in case such an eventuality may occur.

Wasting time isn't on my calendar and yes I have power 'over all the works of the enemy'. I'm glad your content in what you like, God bless.