I would prefer the same thing. I don't mean to sound depressing. But that's just how it is.
Marriage was instituted by God at the beginning of time, when the world was perfect, and it's something that's supposed to bless you. But then mankind sinned, and everything was distorted. That includes marriage. And even marriages between Christians, sadly.
People have the freedom to marry, but they also have the freedom to make bad and selfish decisions that hurt their partner. They can make solemn vows to be faithful, but they can also choose to go back on their word, as if those vows are suddenly meaningless.
It's not right. It's sad. And it should break your heart, if you're a genuine believer.