Uh... I don't particularly use YouTube to look up information about parties and orgies... whether straight or gay... but that's just me. Call me ignorant, but no, I never realized such information was available. I will remain blissfully unaware.
Nor do I intend to look it up, seek it out, or research it in any way. And I would say the same of straight orgies as well, as I've known Christian guys who have told me about participating in them (along with "sex clubs", S&M parties, etc.) Sorry, just not interested.
People are people, with good and bad in every mix. One of the reasons I'm single is because many of the Christian guys I meet my own age have had sexual partners numbering in the double digits... and they just added to their count last month. (I know about forgiveness and overlooking the past, but if the behavior is very recent and ongoing, I see it as a huge red flag.)
In my work situation, I'm around several people with several different orientations. There are a couple middle-aged married guys with families who egg each other on (talking about illicit sexual behaviors... with women other than their spouses... and saying, "Go for it, man! Do it! Do it!") They are often standing around talking to each other and usually make "comments" to me when I unfortunately have to pass by them.
This is just me, but I feel much safer (and very much prefer to work with) some of my homosexual co-workers who are polite and hard-working rather than the straight men who stand around on company time and act like this. The same thing would go for working with homosexual women, as long as they were hard-working and respectful.
Disrespectful behavior and crossing lines is unacceptable for anyone, whether gay or straight.
