There comes a point my friend, when I do not know what you are referring to.
If people redefine sin, repentance, walking in Christ, salvation, redemption, being born again, there is little left to agree upon, and certainly not a coming together of minds. You may use the same language as me, but that is irrelevant if I cannot understand you. And yes there is always a problem with me, that is why I am learning.
Is difficult to accuse someone of being arrogant and incapable of understanding something when they do understand.
And I understand why I am being accused, but it does not make it true. If you cannot understand why I stand as I do, I can do no more.