True, this is. A lot of people, men and women, really like to hurt prospective suitors with snide comments in the rejection because it scores social points with their friends. It causes a lot more damage than it is worth.
Sometimes things are interpreted wrongly. Like I said to a man that stood me up. "I wish I could hate you for this, but I like you too much". He only heard the word hate, and blocked me.
Sometimes you actually hear what you expect to hear although it isn't said. It is like you want the other person to be mean to you.
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