Interracial dating. What are your thoughts?

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sydlit

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Bellefemmebeni said:
I'm black, Haitian. But I find myself attracted to mostly men of other races
I love my race and black men but for some reason. I find myself dating guys other than black men. Why? I don't know and I don't care. I was just curious. Maybe it's because I'm always interested in others' cultures?! Let me know what your thoughts and experiences are...shoot!!
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I refuse to date black men.

Or white men, or green men or any color in between men.

But that's because I'm a guy, so I don't date guys.

Come to think of it, though, I don't date women either...
but I sure would like to, and though I'm kinda losing hope,
I'd sure like to find out what a real date is like...
and anything or everything that follows?
Color makes no difference, since I pretty much like every color of the rainbow.
And if (since) we all come from Adam and Eve, and we're created in the image and likeness of God, we're already 'inter-(human)-racial', right?
Sì... Òui... Free! :)
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Lol Joey I believe you just started something there. But thanks for your thoughts
Interspecies? Yeah, sick!
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Sydlit, get yourself out there. Be spontaneous. You'll find someone worth your time. Have patience. If it were meant to be, it will be but I appreciate your input in this. What you wrote was very interesting as well.
 
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JeniBean

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Hmmm...I have no issue with it, however I have sadly seen the racism of people and have helped the children of the couples deal. Many are unsure how to deal with society labeling them and how they should label themselves. This usually causes deep depression and issues during adolescents and teen years. I have seen families and friendships torn apart by interracial dating. If one is strong enough to handle the criticism of the world and have faith in God, I believe they can get through anything.
 
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sassylady

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I don't have any problem with it. My daughter dates a guy who has a white mother and black father, my son dates a Hispanic girl, and my other daughter doesn't date anybody but was once attracted to a Native American. As long as they love the Lord I'm not concerned about the race.
 
BruceWayne

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Eh people are people. We're all attracted to different types and there's nothing wrong with that. I had a gf whose mom was from Spain, her whole family spoke Spanish, and I never thought about it. *shrugs*
 
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sydlit

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Bellefemmebeni said:
Sydlit, get yourself out there. Be spontaneous. You'll find someone worth your time. Have patience. If it were meant to be, it will be but I appreciate your input in this. What you wrote was very interesting as well.
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Thank you, belle, God bless you.
Oh, I'm DEFINITELY 'Out-There'. :p
Yes, most women are beautiful,
and of course, worth the time,
and if it was God's will for me to be joined together with one,
she could have as much as she wanted,
(though knowing I'm fallible, and will
make mistakes, and need forgiveness sometimes). (Alots)
Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like I'M worth the time, though.
I guess I get it. :(
Patience?! I'm 55 (Tho I'm very immature for my age, does that help?)
(Don't answer that) ;)
Patience. Hmmm, ok, I'll try.
And I'm planning on being spontaneous...
Soon, I hope, but I have to be patient.

Guess I've made so many poor choices in life,
I'm reluctant to make ANY anymore,
The results can be so devastating,
and I don't want to hurt anyone, or be hurt myself.
Still, ..... dating, ..... and all that goes with it, .....might've been nice.
I guess it's for the younger crowd, but a guy can dream, too, can't he?
Race doesn't matter, but I guess a lot of us have certain looks
that we find appealing, I guess I'm no different, and I guess that makes me
a shallow, superficial, male-chauvinist. Yeah, guilty, ...
But I've found beauty in all 'races', tho,
and the only race that matters is the one we're running...
...it just would be nice to have someone to run alongside with.
But God is good and knows best...
I guess I have to learn to bear my burdens alone,
if that's His will, and leave the dating for those more qualified.
 
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jb

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Bellefemmebeni said:
I'm black, Haitian. But I find myself attracted to mostly men of other races
I love my race and black men but for some reason. I find myself dating guys other than black men. Why? I don't know and I don't care. I was just curious. Maybe it's because I'm always interested in others' cultures?! Let me know what your thoughts and experiences are...shoot!!
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Whatever floats your boat, just make sure that one doesn't become a racist!
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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To the OP: It's a non-issue. The real question remains: Could you date someone that eats their tuna swandwish with a forck?
 
tourist

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I wouldn't eat a tuna swordfish with a spork.
 
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cmarieh

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It doesn't bother me one way or another to date a man of a different ethnicity nor do I believe its wrong. The only thing that is important is that he loves God with all of who he is.
 
JonahLynx

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tourist said:
I wouldn't eat a tuna swordfish with a spork.
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I wouldn't eat it with a fork
I wouldn't eat it with a spork
I wouldn't eat it in my home
I wouldn't in a cosmodrome
I would not eat a tuna'wich
I do not like it Sam-I-Am
 
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LiJo

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I don't have a problem with interracial dating. I'm 1/2 Hispanic & 1/2 Asian and I've only dated and married Caucasian men. What's important to me is they must be a believer (godly men) and how they treat you.
 
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Mitspa

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Attractive is attractive ... should be someone with a good heart, honest and loves God. I like all nice girls :)
 
ArtsieSteph

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Hilariously I'm kinda the same way. For some reason I am totally fine with every ethnicity guy except for my own race: mexicans. I have no idea why, I just tend to not find them attractive. My boyfriend is Caucasian but I met him here so it wouldnt have mattered what he was because I liked him for his personality before anything else ♥♥♥
 
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Abing

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ArtsieSteph said:
Hilariously I'm kinda the same way. For some reason I am totally fine with every ethnicity guy except for my own race: mexicans. I have no idea why, I just tend to not find them attractive. My boyfriend is Caucasian but I met him here so it wouldnt have mattered what he was because I liked him for his personality before anything else ♥♥♥
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So sweet <3
 
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kenthomas27

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A lot of people can't date them. Actually, they're pretty hard to date for a regular person unless you know how to read them. They're stamped here in the USA,you know. Plus they only last 6 years before they're considered old and useless. You should date them though, if you plan on using them. And you shouldn't intermingle them either. You're asking for trouble if you have three of one and one of another. Even if you use one as a spare.

So my advice is if you can't really decide which one, then just be bias. Don't mix it up. You'll wear one of them out. Generally the bias one.



Because I try to be helpful, interradial dating is done like this:

Look at your tire and find the DOT identification number...

Radial Tire ID.jpg

See the number 408? That means it was manufactured in the 40th week of the 8th year of the decade.

Interradial dating is not for sissies folks.
 
JonahLynx

JonahLynx

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kenthomas27 said:
A lot of people can't date them. Actually, they're pretty hard to date for a regular person unless you know how to read them. They're stamped here in the USA,you know. Plus they only last 6 years before they're considered old and useless.
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10/10

It took me a moment lol.
 
Utah

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I have more fun with non-White women. Mrs. Utah will more than likely not be White.
 
LOLOKGal

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I don't see a problem with it at all. Just make sure you're not unequally yoked. If the one you're with is not a Christian and don't believe the same as you, you'll have a lot of heart ache. I'm speaking from experience here. :)
 
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