What do G-dly women look for in men??
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With as many times as we've had threads/posts etc. about hard-working, financially stable and independent women right here on CC, I wonder why so many guys still seem to bypass their existence and fall back on this stereotype. Many of us work, make our own money, and certainly aren't looking to take any from a man. As a Christian woman, I find this constant pigeon-holing discouraging and insulting.
If men only know women who are just after money, they need to start choosing different women.
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I'm just regurgitating what was revealed in a Dr. Phil study/blind test of what women really want in a man... 
vs. what they say they want..
Although, they were not gadly women..
vs. what they say they want..Although, they were not gadly women..
He's a pop culture media house, not someone anyone with any actual sense would listen to, hopefully.
P.S. And I read an article in which as least one of his sons was bragging about dating a Playboy Playmate model.
SURELY none of THOSE women would only be after money!!!
God forbid these men should ever go after a woman who isn't a sex doll. Common sense just isn't so common!
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Not sex, but a physically attractive woman..
Here's a study done on 27,000+ heterosexuals in the US...
Men want beauty, women want money: what we want from the opposite sex
Here's a study done on 27,000+ heterosexuals in the US...
Men want beauty, women want money: what we want from the opposite sex
Ok I admit, the money machine gif was mostly a joke (and a bad one...)
here's a sad puppy pic to make everyone feel better...
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here's a sad puppy pic to make everyone feel better...
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Zero,
I'm looking at my bank account right now and I might only have $20 but all my bills are paid and it's MY $20. (I'd better add that it's on loan from God, before someone jumps right in and gives some super-spiritual corrective answer before I even finish this post.)
I could use it to take you to McDonald's. (We could even splurge on shakes and dessert.)
Truce?
I'm looking at my bank account right now and I might only have $20
but all my bills are paid and it's MY $20. (I'd better add that it's on loan from God, before someone jumps right in and gives some super-spiritual corrective answer before I even finish this post.) I could use it to take you to McDonald's. (We could even splurge on shakes and dessert.)
Truce?
Zero,
I'm looking at my bank account right now and I might only have $20 but all my bills are paid and it's MY $20. (I'd better add that it's on loan from God, before someone jumps right in and gives some super-spiritual corrective answer before I even finish this post.)
I could use it to take you to McDonald's. (We could even splurge on shakes and dessert.)
Truce?
I'm looking at my bank account right now and I might only have $20
but all my bills are paid and it's MY $20. (I'd better add that it's on loan from God, before someone jumps right in and gives some super-spiritual corrective answer before I even finish this post.) I could use it to take you to McDonald's. (We could even splurge on shakes and dessert.)
Truce?
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- "I, [name], take you [name], to be my [husband/wife], to have and to hold from this day forward; for better or for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health; to love and to cherish from this day forward until death do us part."
- "I, [name], take you, [name], to be my [(optional: lawfully wedded) husband/wife], my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live."
- "[Name], I take you to be my lawfully wedded [husband/wife]. Before these witnesses I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you with all of your faults and your strengths as I offer myself to you with all of my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and I will turn to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life."
- "I, [name], take you, [name], to be my beloved [husband/wife], to have and to hold you, to honor you, to treasure you, to be at your side in sorrow and in joy, in the good times, and in the bad, and to love and cherish you always. I promise you this from my heart, for all the days of my life."
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Well, according to the information in the study, women wanted a man that "has a steady income." Over 60% of the women surveyed wanted that. However, less than 10% said that they wanted a man who "makes a lot of money."
Having a steady income isn't just about money. It's basically about security. Steady income means he maintains a regular job/income--he's not getting fired from a new job every 90s days or so, or in a job where the income is uncertain (like certain kinds of sales jobs).
What's interesting to me about the study is that even though men had a preference for appearance, the average for all the ages was like 30% of men who claimed they wanted a "good looking" partner.
Of course, what all of this really means is that about 1 out of 3 women don't have a preference regarding income (steady or otherwise) and that about 70% of men don't make "good looking" their primary expectation.
Having a steady income isn't just about money. It's basically about security. Steady income means he maintains a regular job/income--he's not getting fired from a new job every 90s days or so, or in a job where the income is uncertain (like certain kinds of sales jobs).
What's interesting to me about the study is that even though men had a preference for appearance, the average for all the ages was like 30% of men who claimed they wanted a "good looking" partner.
Of course, what all of this really means is that about 1 out of 3 women don't have a preference regarding income (steady or otherwise) and that about 70% of men don't make "good looking" their primary expectation.
Zero,
I'm looking at my bank account right now and I might only have $20 but all my bills are paid and it's MY $20. (I'd better add that it's on loan from God, before someone jumps right in and gives some super-spiritual corrective answer before I even finish this post.)
I could use it to take you to McDonald's. (We could even splurge on shakes and dessert.)
Truce?
I'm looking at my bank account right now and I might only have $20
but all my bills are paid and it's MY $20. (I'd better add that it's on loan from God, before someone jumps right in and gives some super-spiritual corrective answer before I even finish this post.) I could use it to take you to McDonald's. (We could even splurge on shakes and dessert.)
Truce?
