WHY ARE ALL THE "GOOD MEN" MARRIED MEN?

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Jewel5712

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As the saying goes.."all the good men are "taken" or married"...got me thinking..whats the common deniminator in both these situations..? Is it that men BECOME "good" because they have a woman to TRAIN them? Lol..Any thoughts?
 

TamLynn

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I don't believe all the good men are taken. I think there's plenty out there. Lots of good women too.
Many of the men that are married or taken aren't necessarily 'good' either. (And vice versa)!

I'm not a fan of the idea that women 'train' men. Men aren't dogs.
Couples grow together, and hopefully sharpen each other in the process.
:)
 

Mel85

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As the saying goes.."all the good men are "taken" or married"...got me thinking..whats the common deniminator in both these situations..? Is it that men BECOME "good" because they have a woman to TRAIN them? Lol..Any thoughts?
Not really looking at the marital status of a man, but moreso their love and being able to pursue God - oh and that they’re single of course.

But what do you mean about “good men”? Because I know a handful of men & women who are married and aren’t that very nice or deserving to their spouse.
 

Lynx

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Every good man is married because some other woman beat you to him. Same reason every good woman i know is already married.

"Are you saying I'm not a good woman if I'm single?" Well... you implied we single men aren't any good.
 

Mel85

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I don't believe all the good men are taken. I think there's plenty out there. Lots of good women too.
Many of the men that are married or taken aren't necessarily 'good' either. (And vice versa)!

I'm not a fan of the idea that women 'train' men. Men aren't dogs.
Couples grow together, and hopefully sharpen each other in the process.
:)
Yea not a fan of that idea that women train men either. Or vice verca.

But I think Jewel was being sarcastic lol.
 

calibob

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As the saying goes.."all the good men are "taken" or married"...got me thinking..whats the common deniminator in both these situations..? Is it that men BECOME "good" because they have a woman to TRAIN them? Lol..Any thoughts?
Not, men don't need to be trained, we need to be around women after a few times 20 or 30 we'll catch on. Men who haven't been around women would never think of leaving the seat down, It's gay. And why do women marry men they think they can change? They should marry who they want not try and change men they don't want into someone else! That's self defeating. We are like dogs try and whip us and we'll either fight back or run away. Silly girl!
 

Jewel5712

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Yea not a fan of that idea that women train men either. Or vice verca.

But I think Jewel was being sarcastic lol.
You know..train a man to put toilet seat down..dont drink out of the milk carton..put tge laundry IN the hamper instead of right oitside..hang up wet bath towels off the floor..etc. Lol
 

Jewel5712

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Not, men don't need to be trained, we need to be around women after a few times 20 or 30 we'll catch on. Men who haven't been around women would never think of leaving the seat down, It's gay. And why do women marry men they think they can change? They should marry who they want not try and change men they don't want into someone else! That's self defeating. We are like dogs try and whip us and we'll either fight back or run away. Silly girl!
Lol!#! Spoil sport..women HAVE to train men or no one would want to live with them..just another bunch of sad old men living together..farting..scratching..keeping the toilet seat up..etc..drip dry cause all the towels are still on the floor n stink..lol

Women start training a boy since childhood..lol
 

calibob

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Lol!#! Spoil sport..women HAVE to train men or no one would want to live with them..just another bunch of sad old men living together..farting..scratching..keeping the toilet seat up..etc..drip dry cause all the towels are still on the floor n stink..lol

Women start training a boy since childhood..lol
Not my towels, I hate doing laundry so I hang 'em up for tomorrow,:p
 

Mel85

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Lol!#! Spoil sport..women HAVE to train men or no one would want to live with them..just another bunch of sad old men living together..farting..scratching..keeping the toilet seat up..etc..drip dry cause all the towels are still on the floor n stink..lol

Women start training a boy since childhood..lol
There’s a difference between “training” and “advising”.

You would train your child but advise your husband, would you not? Lol.
 

Dino246

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I'm surprised at the amount of sexism in this thread. Sadly, perhaps I shouldn't be....
 

NotmebutHim

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Well Jeff Foxworthy's wife "trained" him by saying that she was "hot". According to him, he got out of bed and turned on the bedroom ceiling fan for her! :cool:
 

Jewel5712

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Well Jeff Foxworthy's wife "trained" him by saying that she was "hot". According to him, he got out of bed and turned on the bedroom ceiling fan for her! :cool:
I heard that story too..its great..lol
 

seoulsearch

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So is this the place where I should offer to start a training academy? :cool:
 

tourist

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As the saying goes.."all the good men are "taken" or married"...got me thinking..whats the common deniminator in both these situations..? Is it that men BECOME "good" because they have a woman to TRAIN them? Lol..Any thoughts?
There might be something to that training angle. :)

I am sure there are a few good men that are not married, probably looking for love in all the wrong places.
 

tourist

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You know..train a man to put toilet seat down..dont drink out of the milk carton..put tge laundry IN the hamper instead of right oitside..hang up wet bath towels off the floor..etc. Lol
Yeah, stuff like that. This is obviously not your first rodeo as you seem to have a certain measure of wisdom regarding relationships.