I am only looking for girls that are virgins as potential for someone to marry.

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Yahweh_is_gracious

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I've got upteen million crude things I could say, but for some reason...I don't feel like it. It's like I feel it would be in poor taste for me to say them.

What's wrong with me guys? I'm slipping...
 

blue_ladybug

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And who is Jack, anyway? >.> <.<

"Jack" is a many times banned member who keeps returning under different nicks.. He has probably been on here under at least a hundred or so already..
 

JosephsDreams

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Are you looking for a relationship with a woman who happens to be a virgin, or a virgin who you may possibly happen to have a relationship with?
 

NotmebutHim

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It's kinda interesting how both male and female sexuality are often viewed as "dirty", but for different reasons.

Male sexuality is dirty because it's seen as predatory.

Female sexuality is seen as dirty because once women experience it for the first time, they are sometimes seen as having been "sullied" by a man.

It's the narrower version of the wider notion of "men act; women are acted upon". Which is damaging to both sexes because it sees women as having no agency and as being helpless victims, and it sees men as being aggressive predators.

I believe that's why there are so many heated discussions concerning whether it's acceptable for a man to want a virgin woman.

For the record, I'm saving myself for marriage because that's important to me too. :)
 
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wwjd_kilden

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It's kinda interesting how both male and female sexuality are often viewed as "dirty", but for different reasons.

Male sexuality is dirty because it's seen as predatory.

Female sexuality is seen as dirty because once women experience it for the first time, they are sometimes seen as having been "sullied" by a man.

It's the narrower version of the wider notion of "men act; women are acted upon". Which is damaging to both sexes because it sees women as having no agency and as being helpless victims, and it sees men as being aggressive predators.

I believe that's why there are so many heated discussions concerning whether it's acceptable for a man to want a virgin woman.

For the record, I'm saving myself for marriage because that's important to me too. :)
In this case the problem isn't a man wanting a virgin, but a man who admits he is addicted to porn who wants a virgin.
 

EmilyNats

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"Jack" is a many times banned member who keeps returning under different nicks.. He has probably been on here under at least a hundred or so already..
That's an interesting piece of knowledge. And it's actually sort of funny,too.
 
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Mooky

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It's kinda interesting how both male and female sexuality are often viewed as "dirty", but for different reasons.

Male sexuality is dirty because it's seen as predatory.

Female sexuality is seen as dirty because once women experience it for the first time, they are sometimes seen as having been "sullied" by a man.

It's the narrower version of the wider notion of "men act; women are acted upon". Which is damaging to both sexes because it sees women as having no agency and as being helpless victims, and it sees men as being aggressive predators.

I believe that's why there are so many heated discussions concerning whether it's acceptable for a man to want a virgin woman.

For the record, I'm saving myself for marriage because that's important to me too. :)

That's why we need to challenge misogynistic thinking.It feeds into what is known as "rape culture."

It's also why the gospel needs to be fleshed out with more clarity in our pulpits regarding sex/sexual temptation/sexual sin.
It's like virginity is the holy grail in evangelical culture and it doesn't help when the abhorrent double standard infiltrates the church.It is my hope that with all these new challenges in culture regarding gender identity and so called ," marriage equality" - the church will really have to get back affirming the dignity and worth of both genders.

Hopefully when it gets hot in the kitchen - ie. professing christians actually having to take a stand on these issues - the tares will (who pollute the church and sully Gods name) will be forced out - along with their double standards!
 

tourist

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I've got upteen million crude things I could say, but for some reason...I don't feel like it. It's like I feel it would be in poor taste for me to say them.

What's wrong with me guys? I'm slipping...
...it happens to the best of us.
 

JosephsDreams

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The problem with his view is that it implies a virgin is either spiritually and/or physically preferable to a non virgin. Which obviously twists the core message Christianity.
 

JosephsDreams

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That's why we need to challenge misogynistic thinking.It feeds into what is known as "rape culture."

It's also why the gospel needs to be fleshed out with more clarity in our pulpits regarding sex/sexual temptation/sexual sin.
It's like virginity is the holy grail in evangelical culture and it doesn't help when the abhorrent double standard infiltrates the church.It is my hope that with all these new challenges in culture regarding gender identity and so called ," marriage equality" - the church will really have to get back affirming the dignity and worth of both genders.

Hopefully when it gets hot in the kitchen - ie. professing christians actually having to take a stand on these issues - the tares will (who pollute the church and sully Gods name) will be forced out - along with their double standards!
I would rather see the tares repent and come to a better relationship and understanding then forced out.
 
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Mooky

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I would rather see the tares repent and come to a better relationship and understanding then forced out.
Tares are tares - wheat is wheat .....but that's a whole other topic......
 

JosephsDreams

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JosephsDreams

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Any Christian NON virgins. If you don't mind a non virgin guy (sorry :mad:) ...I'm your guy...



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