This is so simply stated in scripture, and the reason why it's this way, that I can't even believe this is even an issue.
Why are some women so intent on changing the words of the Bible to mean what they want it to mean? I think Peter gives us a glimpse of that reason in 1 Peter 3...fear of submission. By nature I think it's a particular problem for women to submit easily to a man.
"... being submissive to their own husbands; 6just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear."-1 Peter 3:5-6
It's just something that women in particular have a hard time dealing with. We all cringe at having to submit to authority, but it seems women have a harder time dealing with it than us men. Being
afraid to submit is a better reason than being too
proud to submit.