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  1. melita916

    How To Even Meet Someone?

    My husband and I were friends for months before we went out on a date. Granted we lived 2 hrs away from each other, so the dates were a month apart lol. Once we became an official couple, a month into it, he said he was gonna marry me. Did it scare me? Not at all. It let me know he wasn’t...
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    How To Even Meet Someone?

    I confess that when I met a new guy at church, I wondered if he was going to be more than a friend lol.
  3. melita916

    How To Even Meet Someone?

    I met new people at church and work. But I met my husband via my MIL, and I met her here on CC lol.
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    To ghost, or not to ghost, that is the question.

    I was ghosted once. Looking back, I think I was clingy, so I don’t really blame him lol. I would’ve preferred for him to say he didn’t want to talk to me anymore, but I’m sure I wouldn’t have received it well. But praise the Lord! I met my husband shortly after I was ghosted. So previous dude...
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    Are You A Supermodel???💐

    Oh man! I heard this song as a kid lol.
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    To What Extent Are Singles and Marries Allowed to Socialize Together Online? (All Input Welcome/Needed for Future Threads.)

    I don’t talk to anyone. No problems here. :ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL: Actually, in the past, I’ve asked hubby if he was ok with me messaging someone I hadn’t talk to in a while. He had no issue with it, and I read to him what I wrote. The convo was short. Some months ago, a guy messaged me...
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    A Strategy For Christian Men Desiring Marriage

    Wat I met my husband via online.
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    A Strategy For Christian Men Desiring Marriage

    Me thinks you’re looking for trouble :ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL:
  9. melita916

    Budget tips?

    I’m not sure if you live in the States. We are a 1 income home and have a 16 month old. Praise the Lord we have everything we need. We don’t eat out much, and we have free streaming services. I also joined on Facebook our local buy nothing group and was able to get a few things we needed for free.
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    The fear of attraction

    My fear was not being attractive, so I guess the opposite problem 😅😂
  11. melita916

    Speak Your Mind.

    hello friends. life be busy sometimes lol.
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    Fears

    ah fears. as a new parent, i’m constantly thinking i’m failing or not doing enough, and the person who is going to pay for it is our sweet little girl.
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    Welcome to the Official CC Valentine's B.Y.O.V. Thread! (B.e Y.our O.wn V.alentine!!)

    One year, I got my friends their fave candy and gave each one a pin that said, “I am loved.” I didn’t get anything from them. Bums! lol
  14. melita916

    Welcome to the Official CC Valentine's B.Y.O.V. Thread! (B.e Y.our O.wn V.alentine!!)

    Hubby is on call for work, so we aren’t doing anything. Even if he wasn’t on call, we would just stay home because our toddler goes to bed between 6:30-7 pm lol.
  15. melita916

    Come One, Come All... It's Time for An Official CC Roll Call!!

    1. NAME YOU'D LIKE TO BE CALLED: Melita (meh-Lee-tah) 2. COMFY OUTFIT OF CHOICE: pjs all day, every day (except when I have to leave the house lol) 3. PURPOSE FOR BEING ON THE FORUM: cause drama. Lolololol 4. PRONOUNS: since becoming a parent, my pronouns are idk/what I’m doing 5. MOST...
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    Hello

    Welcome to CC!
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    What is the Difference Between "Standards" and "Shallowness"?

    back in my young days, i thought all guys were shallow because i was not what they wanted lol. hopefully i’m a little wiser now. in college, i had my “list.” it had maybe 8 things on it? the only physical trait was that he’d be taller than me. as i got older, the list grew shorter LOL. but i...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    my love language is quality time, so that probably says what my preference is lol. before we had our baby, we were both working 40 hours a week, but our schedules were a little off. no biggie because we had the weekend. every now and then, he would work a Saturday morning for overtime, but we...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    I wanna reply to the OP, but I’m currently typing via phone, and I’m gonna need all the keyboard to type fast enough 😂