Why can't guys and gals just tell someone that they're interested??
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Well, I think the romantic part would be if he would offer to do the laundry every now and again.....guys if you ever want to be romantic and tell your sweetheart that you like them offer to do the laundry and the cooking and cleaning....just be sure that you know each other for a while....otherwise it would be a little awkward lol
Offering to help with the housework goes a long way and they'll never forget it and give you some sugar....that's the power of Pine Sol baby
Offering to help with the housework goes a long way and they'll never forget it and give you some sugar....that's the power of Pine Sol baby
My gf/wife will never have to worry about doing my laundry. I don't like other people doing it, because I do it a certain way. Let's just do our own laundry k.
I can do it myself, its an easy thing to do. I dont really feel comfortable with someone messing with my clothing : p I dont really wanna do someone elses laundry for that same reason : p
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My gf/wife will never have to worry about doing my laundry. I don't like other people doing it, because I do it a certain way. Let's just do our own laundry k.
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I occasionally cook but I do the dishes every day and take out the trash and change the kitty litter, and get the mail. I also do some of the shopping. Actually, I use Pine Sol. You are quite knowledgeable on these important marital concepts.
If God ever shows me the man he has for me, he will never have to lift a finger as I find joy in doing the most mundane tasks such as laundry and scrubbing the floor on my hands and knees....it's very therapeutic
Well, I think the romantic part would be if he would offer to do the laundry every now and again.....guys if you ever want to be romantic and tell your sweetheart that you like them offer to do the laundry and the cooking and cleaning....just be sure that you know each other for a while....otherwise it would be a little awkward lol
Offering to help with the housework goes a long way and they'll never forget it and give you some sugar....that's the power of Pine Sol baby
Offering to help with the housework goes a long way and they'll never forget it and give you some sugar....that's the power of Pine Sol baby
He does laundry sometimes. He and I fold it and put it away together most of the time. He also washes dishes and takes out the garbage and stuff. I do the majority of laundry because I'm home more. I just wash everyone's together. Kid's, mine and his. If I seperated all the laundry, I mean other than and towels and colors and whites, it would take forever.
Awe! Aren't you sweet? JL is very blessed indeed.
If God ever shows me the man he has for me, he will never have to lift a finger as I find joy in doing the most mundane tasks such as laundry and scrubbing the floor on my hands and knees....it's very therapeutic
If God ever shows me the man he has for me, he will never have to lift a finger as I find joy in doing the most mundane tasks such as laundry and scrubbing the floor on my hands and knees....it's very therapeutic
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Does that mean it will keep the iron, frying pan and rolling pin from (accidentally) impacting his head from time to time?
My gf/wife will never have to worry about doing my laundry. I don't like other people doing it, because I do it a certain way. Let's just do our own laundry k.
I feel like for most people it's fear of rejection.
There's this guy who comes into my work sometimes, maybe once or twice a month. Real nice, well-mannered guy, probably in his early to mid twenties. Last time he came in, I helped him out with a hair product, and after I rang him through, he said, "can I ask you a random question?" I said sure, and he said, "Do you like coffee?" And Miss Oblivious over here answers with, "No." So he says, "Do you like tea?" And still oblivious as ever, I say, "Yeah, I like tea." He then asked, "Would you like to go for tea with me sometime?" So then, instead of saying, "Thank you, that's very flattering but I'm married," like a normal person, my social anxiety decided to kick in and I got all flustered and proceeded to make a bunch of noises like, "ohh...I....err...I don't.....uhmmm....uh, no." All whilst laughing. He then walked out. I told my husband this story, and he was like, "geez....you broke the poor guy's heart." And I'm like...why are you making me feel bad XD
So, if that guy was ever asked this question, he'd probably be like, "oh, it's definitely fear of rejection for me. All because of this girl that works at Shoppers Drug Mart." And then he'll tell the story of how I ripped out his heart and threw it in the trash like last week's leftovers.
There's this guy who comes into my work sometimes, maybe once or twice a month. Real nice, well-mannered guy, probably in his early to mid twenties. Last time he came in, I helped him out with a hair product, and after I rang him through, he said, "can I ask you a random question?" I said sure, and he said, "Do you like coffee?" And Miss Oblivious over here answers with, "No." So he says, "Do you like tea?" And still oblivious as ever, I say, "Yeah, I like tea." He then asked, "Would you like to go for tea with me sometime?" So then, instead of saying, "Thank you, that's very flattering but I'm married," like a normal person, my social anxiety decided to kick in and I got all flustered and proceeded to make a bunch of noises like, "ohh...I....err...I don't.....uhmmm....uh, no." All whilst laughing. He then walked out. I told my husband this story, and he was like, "geez....you broke the poor guy's heart." And I'm like...why are you making me feel bad XD
So, if that guy was ever asked this question, he'd probably be like, "oh, it's definitely fear of rejection for me. All because of this girl that works at Shoppers Drug Mart." And then he'll tell the story of how I ripped out his heart and threw it in the trash like last week's leftovers.
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I love the smell of the cleaner and boy does it feel good to be down on your hands and knees making it happen....I am not OCD, but I do love cleaning and being clean however, I do enjoy getting down and dirty like I am today. I have been under my house digging about a foot and a half so we can fix the foundation to be all level. Tomorrow I will be all dolled up and after my appointment go to work in an office. I love that God created me to be so versatile it's purely a gift
Awe! Aren't you sweet? JL is very blessed indeed.
If God ever shows me the man he has for me, he will never have to lift a finger as I find joy in doing the most mundane tasks such as laundry and scrubbing the floor on my hands and knees....it's very therapeutic
If God ever shows me the man he has for me, he will never have to lift a finger as I find joy in doing the most mundane tasks such as laundry and scrubbing the floor on my hands and knees....it's very therapeutic
I think it's just fear of rejection and for some just being straight up shy Yup and yup.
I don't know if there is a way to make it easier; sometimes you just gotta go for it. The worst that can happen is that they aren't interested. Is that embarrassing? Of course it is. It happens. People have to toughen up and be prepared to face potential rejection. It's a part of life.
What other areas of life is potential rejection going to hinder us from trying? Making friends? Applying for a job? Competing in sports?
I don't know if there is a way to make it easier; sometimes you just gotta go for it. The worst that can happen is that they aren't interested. Is that embarrassing? Of course it is. It happens. People have to toughen up and be prepared to face potential rejection. It's a part of life.
What other areas of life is potential rejection going to hinder us from trying? Making friends? Applying for a job? Competing in sports?