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To show us who we really are, sometimes it takes a dream. I had a dream I was trapped in a relationship. It was one of obligation, tediousness, and emotional distance. It was punctuated by misunderstanding and a distinct absence of any real empathy. It was fair, noble, and I'm sure she was...

10 Overlooked Truths About Action | The Art of Manliness As you may or may not be aware, I haven't been around much. I've been ridiculously busy. And if there is one thing that this state of being busy has taught me, it is that industriousness and execution are staples to success at...

In life everything is going to pull you in every direction and going any direction at all is going to break the rules, offend, betray or otherwise annoy your own sensibilities. Remember, you are on your own team first and foremost. If for instance I have a squabble with say, MissCris about...

If I am a mature Christian with with an understanding of wisdom and the practical application of the principles listed in the Bible, I can make choices throughout my day and my life that reflect the character and the Nature of my relationship with Christ. This means that I can see the Biblical...

I'm not going to say where I got the images or who the girls are but... I'll let you see and then I'll explain. The images on the left look like real people, that I would want to approach or actually talk to. And the people on the left I would just as soon not talk to or pretend they...

I'm in a strange relationship. Girl A: I will call her Emily (ISFJ) Girl B: I will call her A.J. (ENTJ) Girl C: I will call her Aprilia (ENFJ) Girl D: I will call Jae (INTJ) I hang out with Emily and her sister A.J. every weekend. About 3 months ago, I asked Emily out and she said, she was...

I've been thinking about this more recently due to my recent stuff going on in my life. I'm not a cat person, but a cat adopted our house and I took care of it. I gave it food, shelter, love and attention. I would have never chosen a cat as a pet, nor can I imagine adopting one in the future...

Deal Breakers: Pagan, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Too short, Too Fat, Cutter, Drug addict, pot smoker, Alcoholic, Bi-polar, Borderline Personality Disorder, Rage-aholic, Militant Feminist, Schizotypal, Jealous, Disloyal, (real) OCD, germaphobe, Vegan, Stripper, Drug Dealer, Abusive to Animals. Red...

If you could impart knowledge to your old self before your first everything, what do you wish you knew? I'm curious to know :)

The Science of a Good Marriage | Psychology Today Deep friendship is the key to successful marriage. Get Your Livability Score & Find The Best Places To Live - AreaVibes ^Awesome website to compare where different CCers live. :) And here is a dog with the barking Squirts....

Ever hear a phrase and suddenly violence seems to bubble within? "Lets Not" - usually used by itself, always condescending. "Your call is important to us..." - followed by me hanging up. "Hot enough for ya?!" - If I have a mouthful of food or we are talking about the weather, whoever says...

I was in the military, and I once believed that the more expensive the sunglasses, the better. I had a 300 dollar pair of Oakley Juliets go into the Atlantic, after that, I had to rethink why I thought they were the bees knees. I once was in a relationship with a girl who wanted me to sell my...

I got flaked out on for a thing I was going to, by a girl that I was testing the waters on. It made me realize that boundaries go both ways. In one sense, there is the normative, "Don't smother me" boundary. You know, the I need my space cause I have a life, and it would not be beneficial...

Something Servant strike said about Plastic internal combustion engines cued my memory for discussions I would have with myself as a kid. So... If you could go back in time with just the knowledge that you have and nothing more. to say 700 BC. What could you tell the Locals (We'll...

Feel free to post whatever you want to get off your chest. I. I am somewhere beyond frustrated by the 3 Charismatic Christians in my Western Religions Class.... 1. When asked what the purpose of the Holy Spirit is in the Trinity, talk about Speaking in tongues. 2. When asked what...

The other thread talks about who you couldn't date but, I'm more curious to know the other side of the coin. I tend to drive Traditional women up the wall. I ask things like why paint the picket fence white? We could paint it red or Black or even Textured Spackle Rock Spray, like they have on...

In order for the Pearl analogy to work, we have to assume that the Pearl is of more value than the field. But this is the opposite of the Maya Angelou Quote. Which is why the WMD in the Oil one is probably the most accurate equivalent analogy I could come up with. The only way that I can...

I read this really really dumb article about how women who have short hair have mental issues. I debated posting the link but frankly I'll skip it. I happen to like hair that makes women feel comfortable, feel pretty or simply feel good about herself. And I'm sure someone is going to put...

Like oh, you're 65, you can't help but think that way. Its not their fault but, maybe its a little late to challenge your notions of why what they said is silly. Is there a cutoff age for anyone else? Like, when an old woman says something like, "Well men are dumb and don't know how to...

COMMANDMENT #1: Thou Shalt Get A Life. Those that don’t risk living the “un-life,” which can be characterized by desperation, dependency, and/or depression. Fundamental principle: dating is not (and should never become) your life. Love yourself the way God loves you. COMMANDMENT #2: Thou Shalt...